A Dad’s Guide to Periods: Supporting Your Daughter with Confidence

A Dad’s Guide to Periods: Supporting Your Daughter with Confidence

Being a dad to a daughter who’s starting her period can feel intimidating. You might worry about saying the wrong thing, not knowing enough, or feeling awkward about a topic that seems outside your wheelhouse. But here’s the truth: your support during this important time can make all the difference in how your daughter feels about her changing body and this new phase of her life.

At Scarlet by RedDrop, we know that when dads are informed and involved, daughters feel more supported and confident. You don’t need to be an expert. You just need to be present, caring, and willing to learn alongside your daughter.

Why Your Support Matters So Much

You’re Not Just “The Dad” But a Primary Support Person Your daughter looks to you for guidance, comfort, and reassurance about all aspects of growing up. Periods are no different. When you approach this topic with the same care and attention you’d give to helping her with homework or learning to drive, you send a powerful message that her health and wellbeing matter to you.

You’re Modeling How Men Should Treat Women How you respond to your daughter’s period sets an example for how she expects to be treated by future partners, friends, and colleagues. When you’re supportive and understanding, you’re teaching her that her natural bodily functions deserve respect and care.

You Can Reduce Shame and Embarrassment Many girls feel embarrassed about their periods, especially around male family members. When you normalize period talk and respond with kindness rather than discomfort, you help eliminate the shame that can surround menstruation.

Understanding the Basics: What You Need to Know

When Periods Typically Start Most girls get their first period between ages 10-15, with the average being around 12 years old. However, some start earlier or later, and both are completely normal. Your daughter might show signs like breast development, growth spurts, or mood changes before her period begins.

What Actually Happens A period is the monthly shedding of the lining of the uterus when pregnancy doesn’t occur. This results in bleeding that lasts typically 3-7 days. The entire menstrual cycle is usually 21-35 days, though it can be irregular for the first few years.

Common Symptoms Your Daughter Might Experience

  • Cramps in her lower abdomen or back
  • Mood changes or emotional sensitivity
  • Fatigue or lower energy
  • Bloating or changes in appetite
  • Headaches
  • Breast tenderness
  • Skin changes or breakouts

Important: These Are Normal All of these symptoms are part of normal development. Your job isn’t to fix them (though comfort helps), but to understand and support your daughter through them.

Understanding Period Products: A Dad’s Shopping Guide

Pads: The Foundation Option Pads are absorbent materials that stick to underwear to catch menstrual blood. They sit outside the body and are often the first product girls try.

Scarlet by RedDrop Pad Options:

  • EveryDay Pads (Size 1): Specifically designed for tweens and lighter flow days at about 6.3 inches long
  • FlowDay Pads (Size 2): Medium protection for regular flow days
  • FlowNight Pads (Size 3): Longer coverage for heavier flow or overnight protection
  • Maximum Protection Pads (Size 4): Heaviest-duty option for very heavy flow days

When to buy pads: Always keep a variety of sizes available. Most girls start with smaller sizes and may need different options as their flow changes.

Period Underwear: The Game Changer Period underwear looks like regular underwear but has built-in absorbent layers. Our period underwear is sized specifically for tween and teen bodies and comes in different absorbency levels.

When to consider period underwear: Great for active girls, sports, or as backup protection. Also excellent for girls who want to feel like they’re wearing regular underwear.

Tampons: For Active Lifestyles Tampons are cylindrical absorbent products inserted into the vagina. Scarlet by RedDrop tampons (coming soon) will be designed with teen bodies in mind, featuring appropriate sizing and comfortable applicators.

When to consider tampons: Usually for older tweens and teens comfortable with insertion (typically 13+), especially for swimming and sports activities.

Menstrual Cups: The Long-Term Solution Menstrual cups are small, flexible cups made of medical-grade silicone that collect menstrual fluid. Our upcoming menstrual cup will be specifically sized for teen bodies.

When to consider cups: Best for older teens comfortable with insertion (typically 15+) who want long-term, environmentally friendly options.

Preparing for The Conversation

Start Early and Keep It Casual Don’t wait for one big “period talk.” Instead, start having casual conversations about growing up and body changes when she’s around 8-9 years old. This makes the topic feel normal rather than scary or secretive.

Use Proper Terms Say “period,” “menstruation,” “uterus,” and “vagina.” Using correct terminology shows that this is a normal, healthy topic worth discussing properly, not something to whisper about or use code words for.

Focus on Normalcy and Health Frame periods as a sign that her body is healthy and developing normally, not as a burden or something to dread. Explain that roughly half the world’s population experiences periods. It’s completely normal.

Be Ready for Questions She might ask about your knowledge, whether you’re uncomfortable, or compare her experience to her friends’. Be honest: “I haven’t experienced periods myself, but I want to learn so I can support you.”

What to Say (And What Not to Say)

Helpful Responses:

  • “This is a normal part of growing up, and I’m here to support you.”
  • “What do you need from me to feel more comfortable?”
  • “Let’s make sure you have everything you need for school.”
  • “It’s okay if you need to stay home today. We’ll figure out what helps.”
  • “Do you want to talk to Mom/another woman about this, or are you comfortable talking with me?”

Avoid These Responses:

  • “You’re becoming a woman now” (puts pressure on her to act differently)
  • “This is just part of being a girl” (can sound dismissive)
  • “You’ll have to deal with this every month now” (makes it sound like a burden)
  • “Ask your mom/sister about this” (if said dismissively, makes her feel like you can’t handle supporting her)

Practical Support: What She Actually Needs

Period Supply Shopping Without Embarrassment Learn about the different products available and be willing to buy them confidently. Keep a variety of options at home and don’t make her feel like she needs to hide her period supplies.

Shopping List for Dads:

  • Various sizes of pads (start with smaller, teen-appropriate sizes)
  • Period underwear for backup protection
  • Emergency kits for school (Scarlet by RedDrop’s Code Red Kit is perfect)
  • Comfort items like heating pads and appropriate pain relief
  • Wet wipes or personal hygiene products

Emergency Planning

  • Keep period supplies in your car and at home
  • Make sure she has emergency kits at school
  • Have a plan for picking her up if she needs to come home
  • Keep appropriate pain relief medication available
  • Know which stores carry period products in case you need to make emergency runs

Comfort Support

  • Learn what helps her feel better (heating pads, certain foods, rest)
  • Be flexible with activities and responsibilities when she’s not feeling well
  • Create a comfortable environment at home during difficult period days
  • Stock up on her favorite comfort foods or warm beverages

Handling Different Scenarios

Her First Period Stay calm and positive. If she comes to you first, consider it an honor. She trusts you to handle this important moment. Have supplies ready, help her get comfortable, and celebrate this milestone appropriately.

Period Emergencies at School Be available to bring supplies or pick her up if needed. Don’t make her feel like she’s inconveniencing you. Period accidents happen, and they’re not her fault. Have a plan for discreet supply delivery if needed.

When She’s in Pain Validate her discomfort. Period pain is real and can be significant. Help her find relief through heat, appropriate pain medication, or rest. If pain is severe enough to interfere with daily activities, consider consulting a healthcare provider.

Shopping Trips for Period Products Approach this like any other health-related shopping. Be matter-of-fact, ask what she needs, and don’t act embarrassed. If she’s too shy to shop with you, offer to shop alone with her list.

Mood Changes and Emotions Hormonal changes can affect mood, but that doesn’t mean you should dismiss her emotions as “just PMS.” Listen to her concerns, provide comfort, and remember that her feelings are valid even if they’re influenced by hormones.

Communication Strategies

Regular Check-ins Make period health part of regular conversations about her overall wellbeing. “How are you feeling? Do you need anything for your period this month?”

Respect Her Privacy Don’t announce to the family when she has her period, but also don’t treat it like a secret. Follow her lead on how private or open she wants to be.

Learn Her Patterns Help her track her cycle if she wants to, and pay attention to when she typically needs extra support or understanding.

Be Available Let her know she can come to you with period-related questions or needs at any time, even if it feels awkward at first.

Supporting Through Different Ages and Stages

Tweens (Ages 9-12): Starting Simple

  • Focus on pads and period underwear initially
  • Emphasize that periods are normal and healthy
  • Be patient with learning curves and accidents
  • Keep communication simple and reassuring

Young Teens (Ages 13-15): Expanding Options

  • Introduce tampons if she’s interested and ready
  • Support independence in managing period care
  • Help with period-related school or activity challenges
  • Continue open communication about body changes

Older Teens (Ages 16-18): Supporting Independence

  • Respect her growing autonomy in period management
  • Support her choices about products and care methods
  • Help with period-related life planning (college, jobs, relationships)
  • Be available for support without being intrusive

Working with Your Partner or Co-Parent

Present a United Front Make sure all adults in the household and out of the household are on the same page about period support and communication.

Divide Responsibilities Naturally You might handle supply shopping and emotional support while your partner handles medical appointments, or whatever division works for your family.

Share Information Make sure everyone knows her patterns, preferences, and needs so she always has consistent support.

When to Involve Healthcare Providers

Schedule a General Check-up Around the time periods start, it’s good for her to establish a relationship with a healthcare provider who can answer questions and monitor her development.

Seek Medical Advice For:

  • Periods that are extremely heavy (soaking through a pad/tampon every hour)
  • Severe pain that interferes with daily activities
  • No period by age 15 or three years after breast development begins
  • Periods that last longer than 7 days regularly
  • Any concerns about normal development

Building Long-term Support

Stay Educated Continue learning about periods, women’s health, and your daughter’s changing needs as she grows. Read articles, ask questions, and stay informed.

Normalize Period Talk Make periods a topic that can be discussed naturally in your household, not something that’s hidden or whispered about.

Model Respect Show through your actions and words that you respect women’s health needs and experiences.

Support Her Independence As she gets older, help her take more responsibility for her period care while remaining available for support.

Common Dad Concerns (And Why They’re Normal)

“I Feel Awkward About This” That’s completely normal! The awkwardness will decrease as you have more conversations and gain more experience supporting her.

“I Don’t Know Enough” You don’t need to be an expert. Your willingness to learn and support her matters more than having all the answers.

“What If I Say the Wrong Thing?” Approach the topic with love and respect, and even if you stumble, your daughter will appreciate your effort and care.

“Should I Leave This to Her Mom?” While having female support is valuable, your daughter also needs to know that the important men in her life can handle this topic with maturity and care.

Practical Tips for Success

Keep Learning Read resources like this guide, ask questions, and stay curious about how to best support your daughter.

Stay Calm Under Pressure Emergency situations will arise. Your calm, supportive response will help your daughter feel secure and cared for.

Respect Her Preferences She might prefer certain products, brands, or routines. Support her choices and help her get what works best for her body.

Be Patient Both you and your daughter are learning. Give yourselves grace as you navigate this together.

The Bigger Picture

Supporting your daughter through her period journey isn’t just about managing a monthly occurrence. It’s about helping her develop a healthy relationship with her body, teaching her that her needs matter, and showing her how she deserves to be treated during vulnerable times.

When you approach periods with the same caring attention you give to other aspects of her health and wellbeing, you’re telling your daughter that all of her is worthy of love and support. This foundation will serve her well throughout her life.

Final Thoughts for Dads

Your daughter’s period is not something to fear or avoid. It’s an opportunity to strengthen your relationship and show up as the supportive father she needs. You don’t have to be perfect at this. You just have to be present, caring, and willing to learn.

At Scarlet by RedDrop, we believe that when families work together to support young women through their period journey, everyone benefits. Your daughter gets the comprehensive support she needs, and you get to be part of this important milestone in her life.

Remember: You’ve got this, and we’ve got resources to help you support her every step of the way.

Photo by Claudia Raya

Sterling P. Jones is a wellness writer and beauty expert who believes in empowering women through education. As the founder of The Beauté Study, she teaches women how beauty and wellness practices can be tools of personal power. Sterling specializes in cycle-conscious living and writes about the intersection of beauty, wellness, and feminine health. Her approach to period education combines cultural insight with practical guidance, helping young women understand their bodies as sources of strength rather than shame.

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Best For: Older teens comfortable with insertion (typically 15+) Heavy flow days Long school days or activities Environmentally conscious teens Those looking for long-term cost savings Pros: Can be worn for up to 12 hours Environmentally friendly (lasts for years) Cost-effective long-term Great for heavy flows No risk of toxic shock syndrome Cons: Learning curve for insertion and removal Requires comfort with your body Need access to clean water for emptying Higher upfront cost Can be messy to change Age and Development Considerations For Tweens (Ages 9-12) Recommended Starting Products: Pads: Start with our EveryDay Pads (Size 1) designed specifically for smaller bodies Period underwear: Great option for active tweens who want freedom of movement Why These Work Best: No insertion required, which reduces anxiety Easy to use independently Appropriate sizing for smaller bodies and underwear Builds confidence before potentially trying internal products Consider These Factors: Comfort level with their changing body Ability to change products independently at school Activity level and sports participation Personal preferences for discretion vs. ease of use For Teens (Ages 13-18) Expanded Options: All pad types: Can graduate to larger sizes as body develops Period underwear: Especially great for sports and active lifestyles Tampons: Good option once comfortable with insertion Menstrual cups: For older teens ready for long-term solutions Why More Options Work: Greater body awareness and comfort More independence in managing period care Diverse lifestyle needs (sports, jobs, dating, travel) Ability to handle more complex products Consider These Factors: Comfort level with insertion Flow patterns and heaviness Lifestyle and activity needs Budget considerations Environmental concerns Matching Products to Your Lifestyle For the Athlete Best Combinations: Period swimwear for water sports Tampons or cups for high-impact activities Period underwear for backup protection Pads for rest days and recovery For the Student Best Combinations: Reliable pad protection for long school days Period underwear for PE class Tampons for special events or presentations Always have backup supplies in your locker For the Busy Teen Best Combinations: Menstrual cups for 12-hour protection Period underwear for overnight security Tampons for social events and dates Pads for relaxed home days For the New Beginner Best Starting Combination: Start with appropriately-sized pads Add period underwear for extra security Gradually try tampons when ready Take your time—there's no rush! How to Transition Between Products Start Simple: Begin with pads and period underwear to build confidence and understand your flow patterns. Gradual Progression: When ready, try tampons during lighter flow days when insertion might be easier. Mix and Match: Use different products for different situations—pads at night, tampons for swimming, period underwear for sports. Listen to Your Body: What works for your friends might not work for you, and that's completely normal. Practical Tips for Trying New Products For First-Time Tampon Users: Try during medium flow days when your vaginal canal is naturally more lubricated Use the smallest size first Relax your muscles—tension makes insertion harder It's normal to need several tries to get comfortable For First-Time Cup Users: Read instructions thoroughly before your period starts Practice insertion and removal when you're not on your period Start with shorter wear times to build confidence It often takes 2-3 cycles to feel completely comfortable For Period Underwear: Start with lighter flow days to test absorption Always have backup protection until you trust the absorption level Rinse in cold water immediately after use for best results Building Your Personal Period Kit Every Teen Needs: Primary protection method that works for their lifestyle Backup option for unexpected situations Emergency supplies for school/work Comfort items (heating pad, pain relief) Scarlet by RedDrop Kit Options: Period Kit: Complete starter kit with multiple pad sizes, educational materials, and tracking tools Period Kit +: Enhanced kit with tampons, menstrual cup, and comprehensive education Code Red Kit: Perfect emergency kit for school lockers and backpacks Remember: Your Needs Will Change What works for you at 12 might not work at 16, and that's completely normal! Your body changes, your lifestyle evolves, and your comfort level grows. The key is staying open to trying new things when you're ready and not forcing yourself into products that don't feel right. Some people love the security of pads their entire life. Others can't wait to try tampons. Some teens embrace menstrual cups immediately, while others need years to feel ready. There's no right or wrong timeline—only what feels right for you. Making the Decision Ask Yourself: How comfortable am I with my body right now? What activities are most important to me? How heavy is my typical flow? What's my comfort level with insertion? What fits my budget and lifestyle? Talk to Trusted Adults: Parents or guardians who can help with product costs and logistics Healthcare providers for medical questions or concerns Older sisters, cousins, or family friends for real-world advice Trust Your Instincts: Your comfort and confidence matter most. Don't let anyone pressure you into using products you're not ready for, and don't feel embarrassed about your choices. Final Thoughts At Scarlet by RedDrop, we've designed every product with tween and teen bodies in mind because we believe you deserve period care that actually fits your life. Whether you're just starting your period journey with our specially-sized pads or ready to explore our upcoming tampons and menstrual cups, we're here to support you with products that grow with you. Your period product journey is personal, and there's no rush to try everything at once. Start with what feels comfortable, be patient with yourself as you learn, and remember that finding your perfect period product match is a process, not a destination. You've got this, and we've got you—through every product, every period, and every phase of your journey. Photo by Vitaly Gariev on Unsplash Sterling P. Jones is a wellness writer and beauty expert who believes in empowering women through education. As the founder of The Beauté Study, she teaches women how beauty and wellness practices can be tools of personal power. Sterling specializes in cycle-conscious living and writes about the intersection of beauty, wellness, and feminine health. Her approach to period education combines cultural insight with practical guidance, helping young women understand their bodies as sources of strength rather than shame.

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How Seasonal Changes and Back-to-School Stress Affect Your Period

Our Blog – by Sterling Jones – August 11, 2025

How Seasonal Changes and Back-to-School Stress Affect Your Period

Have you ever noticed that your period feels different during summer vacation compared to the school year? Or that your cycle seems to go haywire right around the time you’re getting ready to go back to school? You’re not imagining it! Seasonal changes and major life transitions like starting a new school year can genuinely affect your menstrual cycle in surprising ways. At Scarlet by RedDrop, we believe that understanding these natural fluctuations helps you feel more confident and less anxious about period changes. When you know what’s normal, you can better support your body through every season and transition. Why Seasons Actually Affect Your Period Your menstrual cycle is more connected to the world around you than you might think. Just like many other biological processes, your cycle responds to environmental changes in ways that researchers are still discovering. Light and Darkness Patterns Your body produces hormones based partly on how much daylight you’re exposed to. During summer’s long, bright days, you might notice different energy levels, sleep patterns, and yes—even period timing—compared to shorter fall and winter days. This isn’t just in your head; it’s your body responding to natural light cycles that have influenced human biology for thousands of years. Temperature Changes Extreme heat can affect your body’s stress levels, hydration, and overall hormone balance. Many people find that their period symptoms feel more intense during hot weather, while others notice their cycles shifting as temperatures drop in fall. Activity Level Changes Summer often brings different activity patterns—maybe you’re swimming more, staying up later, or having a more relaxed schedule. These changes in routine, exercise, and sleep can all influence your cycle timing and symptoms. Summer Periods vs. Fall Periods: What You Might Notice Summer Period Patterns: During the warmer months, you might experience: Heavier feeling symptoms: Heat can make bloating, cramps, and fatigue feel more intense Dehydration effects: Hot weather combined with period-related fluid changes can worsen headaches and mood swings Different flow patterns: Some people notice lighter or heavier flows during summer months Irregular timing: Vacation travel, different sleep schedules, and summer activities can throw off your usual cycle timing Skin changes: Heat and humidity combined with period hormones can affect your skin differently Fall Transition Effects: As you move into autumn, your body might respond with: Cycle timing shifts: Your period might come earlier or later as your body adjusts to new light patterns Mood changes: The combination of seasonal transition and period hormones can intensify emotional symptoms Energy fluctuations: Shorter days combined with period fatigue can feel more challenging Different cravings: Your body might crave different comfort foods as both the season and your cycle change Sleep pattern disruptions: Earlier darkness and school schedules can affect how rested you feel during your period The Back-to-School Period Disruption Starting a new school year is one of the biggest transitions teens face, and your period often reflects this stress—even if you’re excited about going back to school! Why School Transitions Affect Your Cycle: Stress response: Even positive stress (like excitement about seeing friends) can temporarily disrupt hormone production Schedule changes: Different wake-up times, meal schedules, and bedtimes all influence your cycle Social stress: Navigating new classes, teachers, and social situations creates stress that your body responds to hormonally Academic pressure: Worry about grades, assignments, and performance can affect cycle regularity Activity changes: Switching from summer freedom to structured school days impacts your body’s rhythms Common Back-to-School Period Changes: Periods arriving early or late during the first few weeks of school Heavier or lighter flows than usual Increased cramping or PMS symptoms More emotional period symptoms (crying, irritability, anxiety) Changes in skin during your period (more breakouts, sensitivity) Different energy patterns during your cycle Managing Seasonal and Transitional Period Changes Supporting Your Body Through Transitions: Nutrition for Seasonal Changes Your body needs different support during different seasons and stress levels: Summer period nutrition: Focus on extra hydration, cooling foods like watermelon and cucumber, and iron-rich foods to replace what you lose through both sweating and menstruation Fall transition nutrition: Emphasize grounding, warming foods like soups with leafy greens, seasonal squashes rich in vitamins, and consistent meal timing to support hormone regulation Stress-support foods: Include magnesium-rich foods like dark chocolate and nuts, and B-vitamin rich foods like whole grains to help your body handle transition stress Sleep and Routine Adjustments Gradually shift your sleep schedule before school starts rather than making dramatic changes overnight Maintain consistent meal times even when your schedule changes Create calming bedtime routines that work regardless of season or school stress Give yourself extra sleep during the first few weeks of school—your body is working hard to adjust Stress Management for Period Health Practice breathing exercises or meditation, especially during your luteal phase when you’re more sensitive to stress Build in downtime during the school transition period Communicate with family about needing extra support during both your period and school adjustment Remember that some period irregularity during major transitions is completely normal Preparing Your Period Care for Seasonal Changes Summer to Fall Transition Kit: Hydration focus: Extra water bottles, electrolyte packets for hot days, warming teas for cooler weather Flexible products: Stock up on different flow options since your period might change during the transition Comfort items for both seasons: Light cotton underwear for hot days, cozy socks for cooler weather, heating pads that work in any temperature Skin care adjustments: Products that work for both summer humidity and fall weather changes School-Ready Period Prep: Emergency supplies: Extra period products in your locker, backpack, and at home Comfort tools: Portable heating pads, stress-relief items like fidget tools or calming essential oils Communication plan: Practice explaining period needs to new teachers or school staff Flexible scheduling: Build in extra time for self-care during the first month of school When Seasonal Period Changes Are Concerning While some cycle changes during seasonal transitions are normal, certain symptoms warrant attention: Contact a healthcare provider if you experience: Complete absence of periods for three months or more Extremely heavy bleeding that soaks through a pad or tampon every hour Severe pain that interferes with school or daily activities Significant mood changes that affect your relationships or academic performance Any symptoms that worry you or feel different from your normal pattern Remember: Your body is incredibly smart and adaptive. Period changes during transitions often resolve themselves once you’ve adjusted to new routines and seasons. Supporting Yourself Through Every Season Fall Preparation Strategies: Start tracking how your period responds to seasonal changes so you can predict and prepare for next year Create cozy period comfort rituals that work with shorter days and cooler weather Build a support network at school who understands your period needs Adjust your expectations—it’s okay to need more rest and comfort during both your period and seasonal transitions Long-term Cycle Awareness: Notice patterns in how your cycle responds to different seasons over time Keep track of which period care strategies work best during different times of year Celebrate your body’s ability to adapt and change with the seasons Trust that your cycle will find its rhythm as you settle into new routines Embracing Your Body’s Seasonal Wisdom Your menstrual cycle is connected to natural rhythms that humans have experienced for thousands of years. The fact that your period might feel different in summer versus fall, or that it responds to the stress and excitement of a new school year, shows how beautifully adaptive your body is. Instead of fighting these changes, try working with them. Notice what your body needs during different seasons and transitions. Honor those needs with appropriate self-care, nutrition, and rest. At Scarlet by RedDrop, we believe that understanding your body’s natural responses to seasonal and life changes is part of developing a healthy, lifelong relationship with your cycle. Your period isn’t just about the few days you’re bleeding—it’s about understanding the beautiful, complex rhythms that connect you to both your inner wisdom and the natural world around you. As you head into fall and the new school year, be patient with yourself and your cycle. Give your body time to adjust, provide extra support during the transition, and trust that your period will find its new normal as you settle into autumn routines. Your body’s ability to adapt to seasons and life changes isn’t a bug—it’s a feature. Embrace it, support it, and trust the wisdom of your own natural cycles. Photo by Marcelo Matarazzo on Unsplash Sterling P. Jones is a wellness writer and beauty expert who believes in empowering women through education. As the founder of The Beauté Study, she teaches women how beauty and wellness practices can be tools of personal power. Sterling specializes in cycle-conscious living and writes about the intersection of beauty, wellness, and feminine health. Her approach to period education combines cultural insight with practical guidance, helping young women understand their bodies as sources of strength rather than shame.

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From RedDrop to Scarlet by RedDrop: Our Brand Evolution Story

Our Blog – by Sterling Jones – August 04, 2025

From RedDrop to Scarlet by RedDrop: Our Brand Evolution Story

Today marks an exciting new chapter in our journey. After supporting tweens and teens through their period experiences as RedDrop, we’re proud to introduce ourselves as Scarlet by RedDrop—a name that represents not just who we are today, but who we’re growing to become. This isn’t just a name change. It’s our declaration that we’re here for every period, every phase, and every step of your journey into womanhood. Why Scarlet by RedDrop? The Story Behind Our New Name When we started as RedDrop, our mission was clear: help girls navigate their first periods with confidence. And we did that! We created the first period care products designed specifically for tween bodies, provided education that made periods less scary, and supported thousands of families through that important milestone. But as we listened to our community—and watched the girls we first supported grow up—we realized something important: periods aren’t a one-time moment. They’re a lifelong rhythm. Our customers weren’t just dealing with first periods anymore. They were navigating sports teams, school presentations, sleepovers, and all the complexities of growing up. They needed a brand that could grow with them, not past them. Scarlet by RedDrop is bolder. More confident. Made to grow with girls through every phase. The Science Behind the Name We didn’t just pick “Scarlet” because it sounds good (though we think it does!). We held focus groups with tweens, teens, and parents to understand what they wanted from a period care brand. Here’s what we learned: They wanted authenticity, not embarrassment. Traditional period brands try to hide what they’re about. Our community wanted a brand that could talk about periods openly and proudly. They wanted friendship, not fear. Period care shouldn’t feel clinical or scary. It should feel like having a supportive friend who understands what you’re going through. They wanted growth, not limitations. They didn’t want to outgrow their period care brand—they wanted it to evolve with them. Scarlet by RedDrop embodies all of this. It’s confident without being aggressive. It’s warm without being childish. It’s a name that works whether you’re 11 or 18—or beyond. What’s Changing (And What’s Not) What’s Staying the Same: Our core mission of supporting tweens and teens through their period journey Our best-selling first-period kits that have helped thousands of families Products designed specifically for smaller, developing bodies Educational resources that make periods less intimidating Our commitment to being affordable and accessible The same founders, Dana Roberts and Dr. Monica Williams, who started this journey in a fifth-grade classroom What’s New and Exciting: Expanded product line: We’re launching tampons and menstrual cups designed specifically for teens, giving you more options as your needs change Enhanced kits: Our new Period Kit + includes everything you need for every type of period experience Bigger retail presence: You’ll find us at Ulta Beauty stores nationwide starting August 10th—because period products belong wherever you shop for self-care Evolved design: Our new branding brings our products to life with friendly, approachable imagery that makes periods feel less scary Growing community: More education, more support, and more resources for every stage of your period journey Our Vision: More Than Just Products Scarlet by RedDrop exists to make sure girls feel confident, celebrated, and unstoppable during their periods. We’re not just making pads and tampons—we’re creating a complete support system. We design products that are thoughtful, not generic. Every product is created specifically for teen bodies, with features like extra adhesive for active lifestyles, appropriate sizing for smaller frames, and absorption that works for school schedules. We create education that’s empowering, not awkward. From our period prep classes to our social media content, we talk about periods the way friends would—honestly, supportively, and sometimes with a sense of humor. We believe every girl deserves to feel seen, supported, and strong. Not just during her first period, but throughout her entire menstrual journey. The Journey From Classroom to Nationwide Our story started in Dana Roberts’ fifth-grade classroom, where she watched too many girls experience their first periods unprepared and scared. Some didn’t even know what was happening to their bodies. That classroom experience sparked the creation of RedDrop’s first period kits—simple collections of properly sized pads, wipes, and educational materials that gave girls what they actually needed during those crucial moments. From those humble classroom beginnings, we’ve grown to: Partnerships with hundreds of school districts nationwide Recognition from major programs like Pharrell’s Black Ambition (where we won $1 million), Ulta Beauty’s Muse Accelerator, and The Fifteen Percent Pledge A community of families who trust us to help young girls bloom into confident teens with their first period and products that are appropriately sized for their developing bodies Looking Forward: The Scarlet by RedDrop Promise As Scarlet by RedDrop, we’re making some important promises to our community: We promise to grow with you. Whether you’re 11 and experiencing your first period or 18 and heading to college, we’ll have products and resources that meet you where you are. We promise to keep it real. We’ll continue to talk about periods honestly, show real period experiences (yes, including blood), and refuse to make you feel ashamed about a normal bodily function. We promise to innovate for you. Our product development will always center the actual needs of tweens and teens, not what adults think you need. We promise to support your whole journey. Periods aren’t just about products—they’re about confidence, education, and community. We’re here for all of it. What This Means for You If you’re already part of our community, nothing about your experience changes except for the better. Your favorite products are still available (with some exciting new additions), our educational resources are still here, and our commitment to your period care journey is stronger than ever. If you’re new to our community, welcome to Scarlet by RedDrop! You’re joining a brand that believes your period should never hold you back from anything you want to do. A Personal Note from Our Founders When we spoke with Beauty Independent about our rebrand, we emphasized how important it was that we’re here for every period—not just the first one. This evolution represents our deeper understanding of what our community truly needs. “We are showing we’re not just for first periods, we’re here for every period,” says Dana Roberts. “We hope that, overall, Scarlet by RedDrop talks like a friend. That really matters when you’re going through something personal like your period.” Dr. Monica Williams adds, “This rebrand represents our commitment to being there for our community as they grow and change. We want every girl to know that her period is just one part of her powerful story.” Ready to Meet Scarlet by RedDrop? This evolution from RedDrop to Scarlet by RedDrop represents everything we’ve learned, everything we’ve built, and everything we’re excited to become. We’re the same mission-driven, education-focused, tween-and-teen-centered brand you’ve trusted—just bigger, bolder, and ready to grow with you. You can find us online at tryscarlet.com, and starting August 4th, you will find us on Ulta Beauty online and in Ulta Beauty stores nationwide starting August 10th. Same heart, new energy, and a commitment to supporting you through every period, every phase, and every step of your journey. Welcome to Scarlet by RedDrop. We’re so glad you’re here.

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The Ultimate Back-to-School Period Checklist for Parents

Our Blog – by Sterling Jones – July 28, 2025

The Ultimate Back-to-School Period Checklist for Parents

As back-to-school season approaches, your shopping list probably includes notebooks, pencils, and new clothes. But if you’re the parent of a teen who menstruates (or might start soon), there’s another essential category to add: period preparedness. Creating a comprehensive period plan for the school year isn’t just about supplies—it’s about building your teen’s confidence to handle whatever the school year brings. At RedDrop, we know that prepared teens are confident teens. When your child has the right tools and knowledge, managing their period at school becomes routine rather than stressful. Here’s your complete checklist for period-ready back-to-school prep. Essential Supply Checklist The Foundation: Emergency Period Kits Every teen needs reliable supplies in multiple locations: For the Locker: RedDrop Code Red Kit (our complete emergency kit designed specifically for school situations) Extra pack of pads in preferred sizes Backup underwear in dark colors Small pack of flushable wipes A comfortable change of clothes (dark pants or long sweater for coverage) For the Backpack: Compact period supplies that fit discreetly Individual wipes in small packets Emergency snack for energy dips Small bottle of pain relief (if school policy allows) For PE/Sports: Athletic-appropriate period products RedDrop’s period swimwear for swim classes Extra supplies in gym bag Dark-colored athletic clothes Comfort and Care Items Heating pad or portable heat patches for cramps Compression or wool socks for warmth Herbal tea bags (raspberry leaf, ginger) for the nurse’s office Comfortable pajamas for rough period days at home Conversations to Have Before School Starts The School Support System Discussion Help your teen identify their support network: Which teachers would they feel comfortable asking for help? Where is the nurse’s office, and what supplies do they keep? Who are their trusted friends who could provide backup support? What adults at school should know about any specific period-related health needs? Communication Practice Role-play different scenarios so your teen feels prepared: How to ask for a bathroom pass during class What to say if they need to visit the nurse How to communicate with PE teachers about participation during difficult days Ways to ask friends for help without embarrassment Academic Planning Conversations Discuss how periods might affect school performance: It’s normal for energy and focus to fluctuate with their cycle When to ask for assignment extensions (severe cramps that interfere with concentration) How to advocate for their needs without oversharing personal information The importance of not using periods as an excuse, but as a valid health consideration Building Confidence and Reducing Anxiety Normalize Period Experiences Share age-appropriate stories from your own school experience Emphasize that most teens worry about periods at school—they’re not alone Discuss how common period accidents are and how to handle them with grace Reinforce that periods are a normal, healthy part of growing up Create Emergency Action Plans Work together to plan for different scenarios: What to do if their period starts unexpectedly during class How to handle a leak or accident When to call you for pickup vs. when to handle it independently Backup plans if they forget supplies or run out Address Period Shame and Stigma Teach them that periods aren’t something to hide or be ashamed of Practice matter-of-fact language about periods Discuss how to handle teasing or inappropriate comments from classmates Emphasize their right to take care of their health needs Health and Wellness Preparation Tracking and Awareness Help them start simple period tracking to identify patterns Discuss how stress, schedule changes, and new routines might affect their cycle Explain that irregular periods are normal during the teen years Show them how to use tracking information to plan ahead Pain Management Strategies Review appropriate over-the-counter pain relief options Discuss natural comfort measures (heat, gentle movement, rest) Know when period pain requires medical attention Create a plan for managing severe cramps during school days Nutrition and Energy Support Pack period-friendly snacks (bananas, nuts, dark chocolate) Discuss how to maintain energy during their cycle Plan iron-rich meals for the week of their period Encourage staying hydrated throughout the school day School-Specific Logistics Understanding School Policies Research your school’s policies regarding: Medication storage and use (pain relievers, etc.) Bathroom pass policies and any restrictions PE participation requirements and modification options Health office procedures and available supplies Schedule Considerations Note any particularly challenging class periods (long blocks, limited bathroom breaks) Identify the most private bathroom locations Plan for schedule disruptions (fire drills, field trips, testing days) Consider timing of important events (presentations, tests) when possible Communication with School Staff Decide what information to share with teachers or counselors Discuss any accommodations your teen might need Establish communication protocols for severe period days Know when and how to involve school health professionals Technology and Resources Helpful Apps and Tools Simple period tracking apps appropriate for teens Calendar reminders for restocking supplies Emergency contact information easily accessible Educational resources about periods and adolescent health Emergency Contacts and Information Make sure your teen has your contact information memorized Provide the school with any relevant health information Ensure they know how to reach you during school hours Have backup adults they can contact if needed Preparing for the Unexpected Seasonal and Schedule Changes Hot weather considerations for comfort during periods Winter weather planning (periods can feel worse in cold weather) Holiday break disruptions to normal routines Sports season timing and additional needs Social Situations Handling periods during school social events Managing friend group dynamics around period topics Dealing with dating and social activities during their cycle Building supportive friendships that include period awareness When to Seek Additional Support Academic Accommodations Consider talking to school counselors if your teen experiences: Frequent missed school days due to period symptoms Difficulty concentrating during their cycle Anxiety about periods that affects academic performance Need for additional bathroom breaks or movement during class Health Concerns to Monitor Schedule a healthcare provider appointment if you notice: Extremely heavy periods that interfere with school attendance Severe pain that isn’t relieved by appropriate measures Significant mood changes that affect school relationships Any concerns about normal development or cycle patterns Final Reminders for Parents Your Role as Support Be available for pickup on particularly difficult days without judgment Stock up on comfort items at home for after-school recovery Maintain open communication throughout the school year Celebrate your teen’s growing independence in managing their health Building Long-Term Skills Remember that this preparation isn’t just about surviving one school year—you’re teaching your teen life skills for managing their health independently. The confidence and knowledge they gain now will serve them throughout their adult life. Trust Your Teen’s Instincts While preparation is important, also trust your teen to know what they need. Every person’s period experience is different, and your teen is the expert on their own body. Your job is to provide support, supplies, and guidance while allowing them to develop their own period management style. Ready for a Confident School Year Period preparedness is just one part of back-to-school planning, but it’s an important one. When your teen feels confident managing their period at school, they can focus on what really matters: learning, growing, and enjoying their educational experience. At RedDrop, we’re here to support both you and your teen with products designed specifically for teen bodies and teen lives. Our mission is to ensure that no young person has to worry about their period interfering with their education or activities. Your teen’s period doesn’t have to be a source of school-year stress. With the right preparation, open communication, and quality supplies, they can handle whatever the academic year brings—period included. Start your back-to-school period prep today, and give your teen the gift of confidence for the year ahead. Photo by lisboa ind. on Unsplash Sterling P. Jones is a wellness writer and beauty expert who believes in empowering women through education. As the founder of The Beauté Study, she teaches women how beauty and wellness practices can be tools of personal power. Sterling specializes in cycle-conscious living and writes about the intersection of beauty, wellness, and feminine health. Her approach to period education combines cultural insight with practical guidance, helping young women understand their bodies as sources of strength rather than shame.

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Back-to-School Period Prep: Your Complete Checklist for Confidence

Our Blog – by Sterling Jones – July 21, 2025

Back-to-School Period Prep: Your Complete Checklist for Confidence

The back-to-school season is exciting, but if you’re a teen who menstruates, it can also bring some anxiety. Will your period surprise you during a math test? What if you get cramps during PE? How do you discreetly handle period emergencies between classes? At RedDrop, we believe that being prepared is the key to confidence. When you have the right supplies and strategies in place, managing your period at school becomes just another part of your routine, not a source of stress. Here’s your complete checklist for period-ready back-to-school prep. Your School Period Kit Essentials The Foundation: RedDrop Tween Period Kit - Back to School Edition. Every teen needs a reliable products for their period as 67% of girls get their first period at school. Created based on our cofounder’s experience preparing her fifth-grade students, it contains everything you need for unexpected period days: 1 pack of  EveryDay pads (Size 1) for lighter flow days 1 pack of Flow Day pads (Size 2) for heavy flow days or longer school days 1 pack of FlowNight pad (Size 3) for heavier flow nights 1 pack of Size 4 Maximum Protection pads (5ct) 1 on-the-go pouch that is discreet and perfect for backpacks or purses (style of pouch may vary) 1 period tracker with fun stickers A ‘hall pass’ to show teachers when a bathroom trip is needed 1 pack of 7-wipes Beyond the Basics: Add these comfort items to create your perfect school period kit: Extra underwear (dark colors are your friend) like our period underwear Small pack of pain relief (if your school allows it) A few raspberry leaf tea bags for the nurse’s office Compression or wool socks for warmth and comfort A small heating pad or hand warmers for cramps like our heat patch Strategic Kit Placement Locker Setup: Your locker is your home base for period supplies. Store a complete kit including: Full-size period products for heavy days A change of clothes (dark pants or a long sweater for coverage) Comfortable shoes if your feet swell during your period Any comfort items that help you feel better Backpack Basics: Keep a smaller, discreet kit in your everyday backpack: Our Code Red Kit pouch fits perfectly and isn’t obvious One or two extra products for unexpected needs Wet wipes for quick freshening up A small snack for energy dips PE and Sports Preparation: For gym class and athletics, you need specialized planning: Period swimwear for swim class (RedDrop’s new line is perfect for this!) Extra-secure products that won’t shift during activity Backup supplies in your gym bag A plan for changing discreetly in locker rooms Navigating Different School Situations Long School Days: When you’re at school from 7 AM to 6 PM for activities: Plan for at least two product changes throughout the day Pack extra snacks to maintain energy during your period Know your bathroom break opportunities between classes Communicate with coaches or activity leaders about bathroom needs Physical Education Class: PE during your period doesn’t have to be miserable: Choose your most secure, comfortable period products Consider RedDrop’s period swimwear for swimming units Wear dark-colored athletic clothes when possible Know that it’s okay to modify activities if you’re experiencing severe cramps Keep backup supplies in your gym locker Testing Days and Important Events: When you can’t afford period-related distractions: Use your most reliable, longest-lasting products Take appropriate pain relief before school if needed Eat a good breakfast to maintain energy and focus Have a discreet backup plan (supplies in your pencil case or pocket) Remember that teachers understand—don’t suffer in silence Social Situations and Lunch: Managing periods during social time: Choose lunch foods that don’t worsen bloating or cramps Have a trusted friend who knows your situation and can help if needed Know where the closest, most private bathrooms are located Practice asking for what you need: “Can you save my seat? I need to make a quick stop.” Building Your Support Network at School Identifying Safe Adults: Know which adults at school you can turn to for help: School nurses are trained to handle period emergencies Trusted teachers who keep extra supplies in their classrooms Counselors who understand adolescent health needs Administrative staff who can provide passes for bathroom breaks Friend System: Create a buddy system with close friends: Share your period tracking info with a trusted friend Establish code words for period emergencies Trade supplies when someone runs out Look out for each other during difficult period days Communication Strategies: Practice ways to ask for help when you need it: “I have a health issue and need to visit the nurse.” “I need a bathroom pass—it’s urgent.” “I’m not feeling well today, could I get an extension on this assignment?” Managing Academic Performance During Your Cycle Energy Level Awareness: Different cycle phases affect your academic performance: During your period, focus on reviewing work and more manageable tasks when possible Follicular phase: Great time to start new projects or tackle challenging material Ovulation: Perfect for presentations, tests, and high-energy academic work Luteal phase: Excellent for detail-oriented work and completing projects Study Schedule Adjustments: Plan intensive studying for when you typically feel most energetic Build in extra time for assignments during your period week Use your high-energy ovulation phase for the most challenging academic work Be gentler with yourself during PMS—still work hard, but with more self-compassion Dealing with Period Shame and Stigma Normalizing Period Talk: Your period is a normal bodily function, not something to hide. Here are ways you can normalize it: Practice talking about periods matter-of-factly Don’t apologize for having normal biological needs Help normalize periods for other students by being open when appropriate Remember that roughly half your classmates either have periods or will soon Handling Accidents with Grace: If a leak happens (and it might), here’s how to handle it: Stay calm—this happens to almost everyone at some point Ask a trusted friend or teacher for help Use your emergency supplies or ask the nurse for assistance Change clothes and carry on—you haven’t done anything wrong Preparing for the Unexpected Schedule Disruptions: School schedules can throw off your normal routine: Fire drills during your period require having supplies on you, not just in your locker Field trips need extra planning for bathroom breaks and supply access Late nights studying can affect your cycle timing Stress from exams can make periods heavier or more irregular Seasonal Considerations: Different seasons bring different challenges: Hot weather can make periods feel more uncomfortable Cold weather might worsen cramps Holiday breaks can disrupt your normal cycle patterns Sports seasons affect both your cycle and your schedule Technology and Tracking Useful Systems and Tools: Simple period tracking paper trackers help you predict difficult days Set phone reminders to check supplies and restock kits Use calendar alerts to prepare for your period before it arrives Share tracking info with parents so they can support you better When to Seek Additional Help Academic Accommodations: If periods significantly impact your school performance: Talk to the school nurse or counselor about accommodations Request extended time for assignments during severe period days Ask about alternative seating or movement breaks during long classes Know that severe period pain that interferes with learning deserves medical attention Health Concerns: Consult a healthcare provider if you experience: Periods so heavy that they require changing products every hour Pain so severe that you can’t participate in everyday activities Frequent missed school days due to period symptoms Significant mood changes that affect your relationships or academic performance Final Confidence Boosters Remember that managing your period at school is a skill that gets easier with practice. Every teen who menstruates has worried about period emergencies at school—you’re not alone in this concern. Being prepared isn’t just about having the right supplies (though that’s important). It’s also about developing the confidence to advocate for your needs, the wisdom to plan ahead, and the knowledge that your period is a normal part of being healthy. At RedDrop, we’re here to support you with products designed specifically for teen bodies and teen lives. Our Code Red Kit isn’t just about emergency preparedness—it’s about giving you the confidence to tackle the school year knowing you’re ready for anything. Your period doesn’t have to limit your academic success, social life, or school activities. With the proper preparation and mindset, you can handle whatever the school year brings—period included. Ready for a confident school year? Your preparation starts now. Photo by Umar ben on Unsplash Sterling P. Jones is a wellness writer and beauty expert who believes in empowering women through education. As the founder of The Beauté Study, she teaches women how beauty and wellness practices can be tools of personal power. Sterling specializes in cycle-conscious living and writes about the intersection of beauty, wellness, and feminine health. Her approach to period education combines cultural insight with practical guidance, helping young women understand their bodies as sources of strength rather than shame.

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Cycle Syncing for Teens: Working With Your Body, Not Against It

Our Blog – by Sterling Jones – July 07, 2025

Cycle Syncing for Teens: Working With Your Body, Not Against It

Have you ever noticed that some weeks you feel like you can conquer the world, while others you want to stay in bed with a heating pad? Or that sometimes your skin is glowing, and other times it feels like a battlefield? You’re not imagining it, and you’re definitely not broken. You’re experiencing the natural rhythm of your menstrual cycle, and once you understand it, you can work WITH your body instead of fighting against it. I wish someone had taught me about cycle syncing when I was in high school. Instead of feeling frustrated by my changing energy and moods, I could have learned to honor what my body was telling me. At RedDrop, we believe that understanding your cycle is one of the most empowering tools you can have as a young woman. What Is Cycle Syncing? Cycle syncing is aligning your lifestyle, activities, and self-care with the four phases of your menstrual cycle. Instead of maintaining the same energy and productivity every day (which is impossible for anyone with a cycle), you learn to flow with your natural hormonal changes. Think of it like this: you wouldn’t expect a flower to bloom the same way every season. Your body has its own seasons, too, and each one has its own gifts and challenges. The Four Phases of Your Cycle Understanding these phases is like having a roadmap for your own body. Each phase brings different hormonal changes that affect everything from your energy levels to your skin to how social you feel. Menstrual Phase (Days 1-5): Your Inner Winter This is when your period actually happens. Hormone levels are at their lowest, which often means lower energy and a natural desire to rest and reflect. Your body is literally shedding and renewing itself. This isn’t the time to push yourself to be super social or take on massive projects. Follicular Phase (Days 1-13): Your Inner Spring This phase overlaps with menstruation but continues after your period ends. Your body starts producing more estrogen, which gradually increases your energy and mood. You might start feeling more optimistic and ready to try new things. Your skin often starts looking clearer and brighter. Ovulation Phase (Days 14-16): Your Inner Summer This is when you typically feel your best! Estrogen peaks right before ovulation, giving you higher energy, better mood, and often that natural “glow” people talk about. You might feel more confident, social, and ready to take on challenges. Many people feel most attractive during this phase. Luteal Phase (Days 17-28): Your Inner Fall After ovulation, progesterone rises and estrogen drops. This is often when PMS symptoms appear. You might feel more introspective, need more comfort, and have less patience for drama. Your skin might break out, and you might crave certain foods. This phase gets a bad reputation, but it’s actually when you can be most productive with focused, detail-oriented work. Why This Matters for Teens Your cycle is still establishing itself during your teen years, which means it might be irregular or feel more intense than it will when you’re older. Understanding cycle syncing can help you: Stop Fighting Your Natural Rhythms Instead of wondering why you feel different from week to week, you can start recognizing patterns and planning accordingly. Improve Your Self-Care Different phases of your cycle need different types of care. What feels good during ovulation might not be what you need during your period. Reduce Anxiety About Changes When you understand that mood and energy fluctuations are normal and cyclical, they become less scary and more manageable. Make Better Decisions Knowing where you are in your cycle can help you decide when to schedule important events, have difficult conversations, or try new things. Develop Body Wisdom Learning to listen to your body’s signals now will serve you throughout your entire life. Simple Ways to Start Cycle Syncing You don’t need to completely overhaul your life to benefit from cycle syncing. Start with small awareness practices: Track Your Cycle Use a simple calendar or app to note the first day of your period. After a few months, you’ll start to see patterns in how you feel during different phases. Notice Your Energy Patterns Pay attention to when you feel more social versus when you prefer quiet time. When do you have the most physical energy? When do you feel most creative? Adjust Your Expectations If you’re in your luteal phase and feeling more tired, don’t push yourself to maintain the same social schedule you had during ovulation. It’s not laziness—it’s wisdom. Modify Your Self-Care During your period, you might need more rest and comfort foods. During ovulation, you might enjoy more active social activities. Both are valid and necessary. Be Gentle With Yourself Remember that your cycle is still developing. Some months might feel very different from others, and that’s completely normal.   What Cycle Syncing Is NOT Cycle syncing isn’t about using your period as an excuse to avoid responsibilities or being dramatic about normal hormonal changes. It’s also not about letting your cycle control your entire life or making major decisions based solely on what phase you’re in. Instead, it’s about developing a healthy relationship with your body’s natural rhythms and learning to work with them rather than against them. Looking Ahead Understanding your cycle is just the beginning. In our next blog post, we’ll dive into practical applications: how to sync your study schedule, social activities, and self-care routines with your cycle phases. We’ll also share specific tips for managing each phase in ways that support your goals as a student and young person. Your cycle isn’t something that happens TO you—it’s something that happens FOR you. When you learn to work with your natural rhythms instead of fighting them, you’ll discover a new level of self-awareness and self-care that will benefit you for life. At RedDrop, we believe that knowledge is power, and understanding your cycle is one of the most empowering things you can learn as a young woman. Your body has its own wisdom—it’s time to start listening. Image Photo by Tri Vo on Unsplash Sterling P. Jones is a wellness writer and beauty expert who believes in empowering women through education. As the founder of The Beauté Study, she teaches women how beauty and wellness practices can be tools of personal power. Sterling specializes in cycle-conscious living and writes about the intersection of beauty, wellness, and feminine health. Her approach to period education combines cultural insight with practical guidance, helping young women understand their bodies as sources of strength rather than shame.

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Balancing Sports & Periods: A Teen's Guide to Staying Active and Confident

Our Blog – by Sterling Jones – June 19, 2025

Balancing Sports & Periods: A Teen's Guide to Staying Active and Confident

Being an athlete doesn't stop when your period starts, and your period shouldn't stop you from being active! Whether you're on the swim team, play soccer, or just love hitting the gym, managing your period during sports can feel overwhelming at first. The good news? With the right preparation and products, you can stay active and confident throughout your entire cycle. At RedDrop, we believe that periods should never sideline you from doing what you love. That's why we've created solutions specifically designed for active teens who refuse to let their cycle slow them down. Understanding Your Body During Exercise Your menstrual cycle affects more than just your period week. Throughout your entire cycle, hormone fluctuations can impact your energy levels, strength, and recovery time. Understanding these changes helps you work with your body instead of against it. During Your Period (Days 1-5): Your estrogen and progesterone levels are at their lowest, which can make you feel more tired than usual. However, many athletes actually find they have better pain tolerance during this time. The key is listening to your body and adjusting intensity when needed. Post-Period Energy Boost (Days 6-14): This is often when you'll feel strongest! Rising estrogen levels can increase your energy and help with muscle recovery. Take advantage of this time for more intense training sessions. Product Choices That Actually Work for Athletes Traditional period products weren't designed with athletes in mind. That's why choosing the right protection is crucial for staying comfortable during sports. For Swimming and Water Sports: Swimming during your period used to mean sitting on the sidelines or dealing with uncomfortable tampons. RedDrop's new swimwear period line changes everything! Our period swimwear provides reliable protection that moves with your body, whether you're doing laps, playing water tag, or just enjoying time at the beach. The built-in protection means no strings, no shifting, and no worrying about leaks while you focus on your performance.These high-rise, full coverage underwear have a Dry-Tech mesh and cotton gusset that can hold up to 4 light tampons of flow!  For High-Impact Sports: Sports like basketball, soccer, and track require products that stay in place during intense movement. Look for period products specifically designed for active bodies. RedDrop's athletic-friendly pads are created with teen athletes in mind, providing secure protection that won't shift during quick direction changes or jumps. For Everyday Training Your daily gym sessions or practice don't have to change because of your period. The right products will feel so comfortable, you'll forget you're even wearing them. This is especially important for teens whose bodies are still growing and changing. Timing Your Workouts Around Your Cycle You don't have to avoid exercise during your period, but smart timing can help you feel your best: Light Movement Days: On heavy flow days or when cramps are bothering you, gentle movement like walking, yoga, or light stretching can actually help reduce discomfort. The endorphins from exercise are natural pain relievers! Power Through Days: When you're feeling strong (often mid-cycle), take advantage of that energy for your most challenging workouts. Your body is literally designed to handle more during certain phases. Rest When You Need It: Some days, your body needs rest more than movement. There's nothing wrong with taking a lighter training day when your period symptoms are more intense. Elite athletes do this too! Practical Tips for Game Day and Competitions Having your period during a big game or competition doesn't have to be stressful with the right preparation: Pack Extra Supplies: Always bring more period products than you think you'll need. Stress and physical activity can sometimes make periods heavier or more unpredictable. Warm-Up Mindfully: Gentle movement before intense activity can help reduce cramping. Use your warm-up time to assess how your body is feeling and adjust your game plan if needed. Stay Hydrated: You're already losing fluids through your period, so proper hydration becomes even more important during sports. This also helps reduce bloating and cramping. Have a Backup Plan: Know where the nearest restroom is located, and don't be afraid to communicate with coaches about bathroom breaks if needed. Your health comes first. Dealing with Period Symptoms During Sports Cramping During Activity: Light movement often helps reduce cramps, but severe cramping during sports isn't something to push through. Gentle stretching or applying heat after activity can provide relief. Fatigue and Low Energy: It's normal to feel less energetic during your period. Adjust your training intensity rather than skipping activity entirely. Sometimes a lighter workout feels better than no workout at all. Bloating and Discomfort: Choose looser-fitting workout clothes during your period if regular athletic wear feels too tight. Compression can sometimes make period bloating feel worse. Building Confidence in Your Athletic Body Your period is a sign that your body is healthy and working exactly as it should. Many teen athletes worry that periods will hurt their performance, but plenty of Olympic athletes and professional players have achieved their best results while menstruating. Learning to manage your period as an athlete is a skill, just like perfecting your serve or improving your mile time. It takes practice, but once you find what works for your body, your period becomes just another part of your routine. At RedDrop, we're here to support active teens through every part of their cycle. Whether you're diving into the pool with our new period swimwear or hitting the track with confidence, we believe every teen athlete deserves products that keep up with their active lifestyle. Your period doesn't define your limits as an athlete. You do. LINKS:Period Swimwear Period athletic-friendly pads Sterling P. Jones is a wellness writer and beauty expert who believes in empowering women through education. As the founder of The Beauté Study, she teaches women how beauty and wellness practices can be tools of personal power. Sterling specializes in cycle-conscious living and writes about the intersection of beauty, wellness, and feminine health. Her approach to period education combines cultural insight with practical guidance, helping young women understand their bodies as sources of strength rather than shame.

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Managing Irregular Cycles in Teens: What's Normal and When to Track

Our Blog – by Sterling Jones – June 19, 2025

Managing Irregular Cycles in Teens: What's Normal and When to Track

If your teen's period seems to have a mind of its own, you're not alone! Irregular cycles are incredibly common during the teen years, and while they can be frustrating, they're usually completely normal. Understanding what to expect during these early period years can help both you and your teen feel more confident navigating this time. At RedDrop, we know that unpredictable periods can create anxiety for both teens and parents. That's why we believe education and preparation are the best tools for managing irregular cycles with confidence. Why Teen Cycles Are Naturally Irregular When teens first start menstruating, their bodies are still learning how to regulate hormones. Think of it like learning to ride a bike – there's going to be some wobbling before everything smooths out! The Learning Curve: For the first two years after a teen's first period, cycles can range anywhere from 21 to 45 days. This wide range is completely normal because the brain and ovaries are still figuring out how to communicate effectively. Some months might have no period at all, while others might bring two periods in one month. Hormone Development: Teen bodies are producing adult-level hormones for the first time. Estrogen and progesterone levels fluctuate dramatically during adolescence, which directly affects cycle timing. It's like having a new orchestra where all the musicians are still learning to play together in harmony. Growth and Development: Rapid growth spurts, changing body composition, and overall development all impact hormone production. Your teen's body is prioritizing growth, which can temporarily affect cycle regularity. What Counts as "Irregular" in Teens Understanding normal variation helps reduce unnecessary worry: Normal Irregular Patterns Cycles lasting anywhere from 21 to 45 days Missing a period occasionally (especially in the first year) Flow that varies from month to month Periods that last anywhere from 3 to 7 days Some cramping that can be managed with rest and comfort measures When to Pay Attention: While most irregularities are normal, some patterns deserve a conversation with a healthcare provider: No period for 3 months or more after regular cycles have been established Periods lasting longer than 7 days consistently Extremely heavy bleeding that soaks through a pad or tampon every hour Severe pain that interferes with daily activities No period by age 15 or no period within 3 years of breast development starting The Benefits of Cycle Tracking for Teens Tracking doesn't have to be complicated, but it can be incredibly helpful for understanding your teen's unique patterns: Recognizing Personal Patterns: Every person's cycle is different. What's normal for your teen might look different from their friends' cycles. Tracking helps identify what's typical for their body specifically. Predicting and Preparing: Even irregular cycles often have subtle patterns. Maybe your teen tends to have longer cycles during stressful times like exams, or shorter cycles during sports seasons. Recognizing these patterns helps with preparation. Building Body Awareness: Tracking helps teens become more aware of their body's signals. They might notice they get certain symptoms before their period arrives, even when timing is unpredictable. Useful Information for Healthcare Visits: If concerns arise, having tracking information helps healthcare providers understand what's happening and provide better guidance. Simple Tracking Methods That Actually Work The Basic Calendar Method: Start simple with just marking the first day of each period on a regular calendar. This gives you the big picture without overwhelming details. RedDrop's Paper Tracker: Our period education kit includes a simple paper tracker designed specifically for teens. It focuses on the essential information without being complicated or intimidating. Phone Apps (When They're Ready): For teens who are comfortable with technology, simple period tracking apps can be helpful. Choose ones designed for teens rather than fertility-focused adult versions. Check on privacy and digital safety contracts.  Symptom Awareness Without Obsession: Encourage noting general symptoms like mood changes, cramping, or energy levels, but avoid getting too detailed. The goal is awareness, not anxiety. Supporting Your Teen Through Irregular Cycles Normalize the Experience: Remind your teen that irregular periods during adolescence are incredibly common. Their friends are likely experiencing similar unpredictability, even if nobody talks about it openly. Focus on Preparation, Not Prediction: Since irregular cycles are hard to predict, focus on being prepared. Having a well-stocked emergency period kit (like our Code Red Kit) helps your teen feel confident even when their period arrives unexpectedly. Encourage Patience: Most teen cycles regulate naturally over time. Let your teen know that what feels chaotic now will likely become more predictable as their body matures. Create Open Communication: Make sure your teen feels comfortable talking to you about their cycle. Regular check-ins can help you both notice patterns and address concerns early. Lifestyle Factors That Can Affect Teen Cycles Understanding what influences cycles helps families make informed choices: Stress and School: Academic pressure, social stress, and major life changes can all affect cycle timing. This is completely normal, but it's worth being aware of the connection. Sports and Activity Levels: Very intensive athletic training can sometimes affect cycles, while moderate exercise usually helps regulate them. It's about finding the right balance for each individual. Nutrition and Growth: Rapid growth spurts, restrictive eating, or significant weight changes can all influence cycle regularity. Focus on overall health rather than weight management during these years. Sleep and Schedule Changes: Irregular sleep patterns or major schedule changes (like switching schools or moving) can temporarily affect cycles. When Irregular Becomes Concerning While most irregular cycles in teens are normal, some situations warrant professional guidance: Cycles that remain extremely unpredictable after the first two years Periods that consistently last longer than a week Bleeding between periods Severe cramping that doesn't respond to rest and comfort measures Signs of eating disorders or excessive exercise affecting cycles Building Confidence Around Unpredictable Periods Irregular cycles can feel frustrating, but they don't have to create anxiety. Help your teen focus on what they can control: being prepared, understanding their body, and knowing when to seek support. At RedDrop, we believe that knowledge and preparation create confidence. Whether your teen's cycle arrives like clockwork or surprises them every month, having the right products and information helps them navigate this normal part of growing up. Remember, irregular cycles in teens aren't a problem to solve. They're a normal part of development. With patience, preparation, and the right support, your teen can feel confident managing their cycle, no matter how unpredictable it might be.        Sterling P. Jones is a wellness writer and beauty expert who believes in empowering women through education. As the founder of The Beauté Study, she teaches women how beauty and wellness practices can be tools of personal power. Sterling specializes in cycle-conscious living and writes about the intersection of beauty, wellness, and feminine health. Her approach to period education combines cultural insight with practical guidance, helping young women understand their bodies as sources of strength rather than shame.

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PMS & Mood Swings: Emotional First Aid for Tweens and Parents

Our Blog – by Sterling Jones – June 19, 2025

PMS & Mood Swings: Emotional First Aid for Tweens and Parents

One minute your tween is laughing at a funny video on Tiktok, and the next they're crying over something that seemed small. Sound familiar? If your tween experiences intense emotions before or during their period, you're witnessing something completely normal but often misunderstood: premenstrual syndrome, or PMS. At RedDrop, we believe that supporting tweens through emotional changes is just as important as providing the right period products. Understanding why these mood changes happen and having practical tools to manage them can make this time less overwhelming for everyone in the family. Understanding the Emotional Side of Periods Why Hormones Affect Mood: Think of hormones as chemical messengers that influence how your tween's brain processes emotions. During the week or two before their period, estrogen and progesterone levels fluctuate dramatically. These same hormones that regulate the menstrual cycle also affect neurotransmitters like serotonin, which directly impacts mood, sleep, and appetite. The PMS Timeline: PMS symptoms typically appear during the luteal phase of the cycle, which is roughly 7 to 10 days before the period begins. For many tweens, symptoms peak a few days before their period starts and usually improve significantly once menstruation begins. What's Normal vs. Concerning: Normal PMS mood changes might include feeling more sensitive, irritable, or weepy than usual. However, if emotional symptoms are severe enough to interfere with school, friendships, or daily activities, it's worth discussing with a healthcare provider. Common Emotional Symptoms in Tween PMS Mood Swings and Irritability: Your tween might feel like they're on an emotional roller coaster, switching between different emotions quickly. Small annoyances might feel overwhelming, and they may react more strongly to situations that wouldn't usually bother them. Increased Sensitivity: Things that normally roll off their back might suddenly feel deeply personal. Your tween might take comments from friends differently or feel hurt by situations they'd typically handle with ease. Anxiety and Overwhelm: The combination of hormonal changes and the stress of managing period symptoms can create feelings of anxiety. Your tween might worry more about school performance, social situations, or feel generally overwhelmed by daily tasks. Sadness or Crying Spells: It's common for tweens to feel sadder than usual or to cry more easily during PMS. This might happen even when they can't identify a specific reason for feeling upset. Practical Emotional First Aid Strategies For Parents: Creating a Supportive Environment Validate Their Experience: When your tween says they're feeling emotional, believe them. Avoid dismissing their feelings as "just hormones." While hormones are influencing their emotions, their feelings are still real and valid. You can learn more about talking to your tween about periods. Adjust Expectations Temporarily: During PMS time, consider giving your tween a little extra grace. This doesn't mean lowering standards entirely, but recognizing that they might need more support with tasks that are usually easy for them. Offer Comfort Without Fixing: Sometimes your tween just needs acknowledgment that they're having a hard time. A simple "I can see you're struggling today, and that's okay" can be more helpful than trying to solve their problems. For Tweens: Self-Care Tools That Actually Help Name the Feeling: When emotions feel overwhelming, try to identify what you're actually feeling. Are you frustrated, sad, anxious, or angry? Sometimes just naming the emotion can make it feel more manageable. Create a Comfort Kit: Just like having period products ready, having emotional comfort tools prepared can help. This might include your favorite tea, a cozy blanket, a playlist that makes you feel better, or a journal for writing out feelings. You can read our blog post here where we talk about our comfort favorites. Use the 24-Hour Rule: If something feels devastatingly important during PMS, try waiting 24 hours before making any big decisions or having difficult conversations. Often, intense feelings become more manageable with time. Conversation Starters for Difficult Moments When Your Tween Is Overwhelmed: "I notice you seem stressed. Is this feeling connected to where you are in your cycle, or is something else going on?" This helps them connect physical and emotional patterns without dismissing their concerns. When Small Things Feel Big: "That sounds really frustrating. Do you want to talk through what happened, or would you prefer some space right now?" This validates their feelings while giving them control over how to handle the situation. When They're Being Hard on Themselves: "Your body is doing a lot right now with hormone changes. It makes sense that you might feel different than usual." This helps normalize their experience without making excuses.   Building Emotional Awareness Around Cycles Pattern Recognition: Help your tween notice if certain emotions tend to appear at specific times in their cycle. This isn't about predicting mood swings, but about building self-awareness that can lead to better self-care. Cycle-Synced Self-Care: Once your tween recognizes their patterns, they can plan accordingly. If they tend to feel more anxious before their period, they might schedule lighter social commitments during that time. Communication Skills Teach your tween how to communicate their needs during PMS. They might say to friends, "I'm feeling extra sensitive today, so please be patient with me," or ask teachers for extensions on assignments when they're struggling. When Mood Changes Become Concerning While PMS mood changes are normal, some symptoms require professional support: Severe Depression or Anxiety: If your tween experiences intense sadness, hopelessness, or anxiety that interferes with daily functioning, especially if these feelings persist beyond their period. Extreme Anger or Aggression: While irritability is common, significant anger that affects relationships or leads to destructive behavior needs attention. Thoughts of Self-Harm: Any mention of wanting to hurt themselves or not wanting to be alive should be taken seriously and addressed immediately with professional help. Supporting the Whole Family For Siblings: Help other family members understand that PMS mood changes aren't personal attacks. Create family agreements about giving each other space during difficult times. For Parents: Remember that supporting a tween through PMS can be emotionally draining. Make sure you're also taking care of your own emotional needs during this time. Communication Ground Rules: Establish family guidelines for respectful communication, even during emotionally challenging times. PMS explains mood changes but doesn't excuse treating others poorly. Long-Term Emotional Wellness Building Resilience: Help your tween develop coping skills that work beyond just PMS management. Emotional regulation skills learned during adolescence serve them throughout life. Normalizing Mental Health Conversations: Use PMS discussions as opportunities to normalize talking about mental health. This creates a foundation for ongoing emotional wellness conversations. Professional Support When Needed: Don't hesitate to seek help from counselors or healthcare providers who specialize in adolescent health. Getting support early can prevent more serious issues from developing. Remember: This Phase Is Temporary While PMS can feel overwhelming, it's important to remember that these intense emotional fluctuations often stabilize as tweens mature. Learning to manage PMS emotions teaches valuable life skills about self-awareness, self-care, and emotional regulation. At RedDrop, we believe that understanding and supporting the emotional aspects of periods is essential for empowering tweens to thrive during this important developmental time. With patience, understanding, and the right tools, both tweens and families can navigate PMS emotions with confidence and compassion. Your tween's emotions during PMS are real, valid, and manageable. By providing support, understanding, and practical tools, you're helping them develop skills they'll use throughout their lives. LINKS: Comfort favorites:  Period Nutrition for Energy & Comfort: What to ...  Sterling P. Jones is a wellness writer and beauty expert who believes in empowering women through education. As the founder of The Beauté Study, she teaches women how beauty and wellness practices can be tools of personal power. Sterling specializes in cycle-conscious living and writes about the intersection of beauty, wellness, and feminine health. Her approach to period education combines cultural insight with practical guidance, helping young women understand their bodies as sources of strength rather than shame.

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Period Protection for School & Work: Be Prepared for Unexpected Days

Our Blog – by Sterling Jones – June 03, 2025

Period Protection for School & Work: Be Prepared for Unexpected Days

As parents of tweens and teens, we know that growing bodies don't always follow a predictable schedule, especially when it comes to periods. Young women often experience irregular cycles due to developing hormone levels, which means periods can arrive unexpectedly or earlier than anticipated. At RedDrop, we believe preparation creates confidence. When your tween or teen has the right supplies readily available, an unexpected period becomes a manageable moment rather than a stressful emergency. Here's how to help them prepare for wherever their day takes them. Creating the Perfect Emergency Period Kit The Essentials: Period Products That Fit The foundation of any emergency kit starts with properly sized period products. Adult-sized products often don't work well for tweens and younger teens, which is why RedDrop designed products specifically for their bodies. Our RedDrop Code Red Kit contains everything needed for unexpected period days. It includes 2 EveryDay pads (Size 1) perfect for lighter flow days, 1 FlowNight pad (Size 3) for heavier flow or longer classes, 2 flushable feminine hygiene wipes for feeling fresh and clean, and a discreet pouch (styles may vary). This kit was inspired by our cofounder Dana Roberts, who created the original version for her fifth-grade students after noticing that half of them started their periods while at school, often unprepared and feeling scared. Beyond Products: Comfort Essentials While period products are necessary, true period care extends beyond just pads and tampons. Consider adding these comfort items to your tween's emergency kit: Compression or Wool Socks Remember from our article on natural cramp remedies that keeping warm is essential during your period. Wool socks are perfect for those who experience anemia symptoms like cold feet. Compression socks can help with circulation and reduce cramping. Having a pair tucked away in their locker or backpack can make a huge difference in comfort. Tea Bags for On-The-Go Relief Include a few raspberry leaf or ginger tea bags that can be steeped in hot water from the cafeteria or water fountain. Raspberry leaf tea helps relax uterine muscles that cause cramping, while ginger provides warming anti-inflammatory benefits. Just having access to these natural remedies can help your tween feel more in control. Portable Heating Solutions Did you know there are now heating pads designed as wearable belts? These incredible innovations can be worn discreetly under clothing to provide consistent relief throughout the school day. Some are rechargeable, while others activate with air exposure with no electricity needed. This can be a game-changer for tweens who experience significant cramping at school. Pain Relief (If School-Approved) Check your school's policies on medication. If allowed, include appropriate pain relievers in the original packaging with clear dosage instructions. If medication isn't permitted at school, teach your tween about timing. Taking approved medication before school when they feel symptoms beginning can help manage discomfort throughout the day.  Strategic Kit Placement Where your tween keeps their emergency kit matters. Here are some smart locations to consider: Locker Essentials For schools with lockers, this provides a private space to store a more complete kit. The locker kit can include extra clothes (dark pants or shorts) in case of leaks. Backpack Basics A smaller, more discreet version can stay in their backpack at all times. This ensures they're covered even during field trips or after-school activities. Gym Bag Necessities Physical education classes can be particularly stressful during periods. A dedicated kit in their gym bag helps them navigate changing room situations with confidence. Beyond Supplies: Building Confidence While having the right supplies is crucial, equally important is helping your tween develop the confidence to handle period situations at school: Practice Conversations Role-play how to ask a teacher, school nurse, or friend for help if needed. Simple phrases like "I need to go to the restroom, it's a Code Red situation" can help them communicate without embarrassment. Know the School Resources Many schools keep period products in the nurse's office or counselor's office. Make sure your tween knows where to go if they're caught unprepared. Build a Support Network Encourage your tween to identify a trusted friend, teacher, or staff member they can turn to if they need period assistance at school. Final Thoughts At RedDrop, we believe that proper preparation is an act of self-care. By helping your tween or teen prepare for unexpected period days, you're teaching them valuable lessons about body awareness, planning ahead, and advocating for their needs. Remember, the goal isn't just to help them manage their period. It's to empower them to face this normal bodily function with confidence and grace, wherever they may be. What other items have you found helpful in your tween's emergency period kit? We'd love to hear your experiences! Sterling P. Jones is a wellness writer and beauty expert who believes in empowering women through education. As the founder of The Beauté Study, she teaches women how beauty and wellness practices can be tools of personal power. Sterling specializes in cycle-conscious living and writes about the intersection of beauty, wellness, and feminine health. Her approach to period education combines cultural insight with practical guidance, helping young women understand their bodies as sources of strength rather than shame.  

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Period Nutrition for Energy & Comfort: What to Eat When You Need It Most

Our Blog – by Sterling Jones – May 20, 2025

Period Nutrition for Energy & Comfort: What to Eat When You Need It Most

Ever notice how your energy dips and your body feels different during your period? That's completely normal! Your body is working hard during menstruation, losing blood and important nutrients each day. The good news? What you eat and drink can make a huge difference in how you feel. At RedDrop, we believe that understanding your body's needs is just as important as having the right period products. Sip Your Way to Comfort: Drinks That Support Your Cycle Raspberry Leaf Tea: Nature's Period Helper Raspberry leaf tea has been used for centuries to help with period discomfort. It works by gently relaxing the muscles in your uterus that cause cramping. I like to start drinking this a few days before my period begins for the best results. You can enjoy it hot with a little honey or make it into iced tea during warmer months. Ginger Tea: Warming Relief When You Need It One of the most important things during your period is keeping your body warm (which is why I always recommend those wool socks in my period care kit!).  Ginger tea brings warmth from the inside out. It has amazing anti-inflammatory properties that can reduce cramping and help with the bloated feeling many of us experience. Simply steep fresh ginger slices in hot water, and your body will thank you. Skip the Ice-Cold Drinks! This might surprise you, but reaching for ice-cold beverages during your period can actually make cramps worse! Cold causes muscles to contract, which is exactly what we're trying to avoid when cramping. Opt for room temperature water or warming drinks instead. During summer, you can still stay cool with fruits like watermelon rather than shocking your system with icy drinks. Meals That Rebuild & Restore Iron-Rich Foods: Rebuilding What You've Lost When you menstruate, you lose iron through your blood, which can lead to that exhausted feeling. Your body craves iron-rich foods for a reason! Including foods like: • Red meat (a small serving of quality beef or lamb) • Dark leafy greens like spinach • Lentils and beans • Pumpkin seeds These foods help your body replenish iron stores and fight period fatigue. I notice a huge difference in my energy levels when I mindfully include these foods during my period. Anti-Inflammatory Meals: Calming Your Body From The Inside  Inflammation can make period pain worse. Creating simple meals with anti-inflammatory foods can help reduce discomfort naturally. Think colorful plates with: • Fatty fish like salmon (rich in omega-3s) • Leafy greens • Colorful berries • Turmeric and ginger • Healthy fats like avocado You don't need complex recipes by just focusing on including these foods in your meals can make a difference in how you feel.  Snacks for Energy Boosts & Mood Lifts  Banana & Nut Butter: My Period Power Snack This is my go-to when period fatigue hits! Bananas are rich in potassium, which helps reduce bloating and water retention (that puffy feeling you might get). Paired with some almond or peanut butter for protein, this snack provides steady energy without the crash. Bananas are also naturally rich in vitamin B6, which can help with mood swings. Dark Chocolate: When Your Cravings Have a Purpose  Ever notice how you crave chocolate during your period? That's your body being smart! Dark chocolate is rich in magnesium, which helps relax muscles and reduce cramping. It also boosts your serotonin levels and that's your body's natural feel-good chemical. Choose dark chocolate with at least 70% cocoa for the most benefits. A couple of squares can be actual medicine, not just a treat! I always keep some in my period care kit. Seeds for Cycle Support Different seeds can support different phases of your cycle. During your period, focusing on flax and pumpkin seeds can be especially helpful as they provide essential fatty acids and nutrients that support hormone balance. Simply add a spoonful to your morning yogurt, oatmeal, or smoothie. No complex recipes needed! Listen To Your Body Your period cravings aren't random. They're your body's way of asking for what it needs. If you're craving certain foods during your period, take a moment to wonder what your body might be telling you. Is it asking for more iron? More magnesium? More comfort? Creating a positive relationship with food during your period is part of learning to honor your body's natural rhythms. At RedDrop, we believe that period care goes beyond just the right products – it's about nurturing your whole self as you move through this normal, healthy cycle. Sterling P. Jones is a wellness writer and beauty expert who believes in empowering women through education. As the founder of The Beauté Study, she teaches women how beauty and wellness practices can be tools of personal power. Sterling specializes in cycle-conscious living and writes about the intersection of beauty, wellness, and feminine health. Her approach to period education combines cultural insight with practical guidance, helping young women understand their bodies as sources of strength rather than shame.

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Cycles of Change: What 15 Years of Periods Taught Me About Power, Movement, and Self-Acceptance

Our Blog – by Sterling Jones – April 30, 2025

Cycles of Change: What 15 Years of Periods Taught Me About Power, Movement, and Self-Acceptance

This spring marks a significant milestone in my life - 15 years since I got my first period. My "period birthday" falls on March 20th, which happens to be my brother's birthday too (talk about stealing someone's thunder!). Looking back over these years, I can't help but reflect on how my relationship with my cycle has evolved from confusion and embarrassment to understanding and empowerment. The Beginning: Confusion and Secrecy I was 11 when I first saw those spots of blood. Despite my mom having talked to me about periods, nothing quite prepares you for the moment it actually happens. I remember the mix of panic and pride - panic because my body was doing something new and a little scary, pride because I was "growing up." Back then, I didn't have brands like RedDrop creating properly-sized products for my tween body. Instead, I used bulky pads that felt like diapers, making me self-conscious that everyone could see them through my clothes. I wore dark bottoms constantly and lived in fear of leaks. The Teen Years: Frustration and Discovery Through my teens, my period was often heavy and painful. I struggled with those infamous chocolate cravings (now I know my body was seeking magnesium!) and mood swings that made me feel like I was riding an emotional rollercoaster. One of my biggest challenges was sports. As a high school athlete, period days were particularly difficult - changing pads in locker rooms, worrying about leaks during practice, and pushing through cramps during games. I remember sitting out during swim practice because I was too afraid to use tampons. No one had really taught me how to navigate athletics while bleeding. But these years were also about discovery. I learned what remedies worked for my body - wool socks and heating pads became my best friends during cramp days. I discovered that tracking my cycle helped me prepare and feel more in control. Most importantly, I found my voice to ask for what I needed during my period without shame. Learning to Move With My Cycle One of the biggest challenges—and eventually triumphs—in my period journey was learning how to exercise throughout my cycle. In the beginning, I'd push myself equally hard every day, not understanding why some workouts left me depleted while others energized me. Through trial and error, I discovered that my body needed different types of movement depending on where I was in my cycle. During my period, gentle yoga and walking became my go-to, honoring my body's need to slow down and restore. In my follicular phase, I could gradually build intensity with strength training. By ovulation, I felt unstoppable—ready for high-intensity workouts and personal records. Then as I entered the luteal phase, I learned to scale back again, focusing on moderate cardio and flexibility. This cyclical approach to fitness completely transformed my relationship with exercise. Instead of fighting against my body's natural rhythms, I worked with them. The result? Better performance, faster recovery, and a much healthier relationship with my body. Embracing Body Fluctuations Perhaps the hardest lesson was learning that monthly body fluctuations are normal and natural. No one told me that gaining 3-5 pounds of water weight before my period was perfectly normal. I'd beat myself up about bloating, wondering why my favorite jeans fit one week but not the next. I remember the moment I started tracking these changes and noticed the pattern—how my face would get slightly fuller, how my rings would feel tighter, how my stomach would round out during my luteal phase, only to shift back after my period started. This wasn't a flaw—it was my body's brilliant dance with hormones. Learning to accept these fluctuations freed me from so much self-criticism. Now I have different "phase clothes" that accommodate my body's natural changes. I've stopped apologizing for my body taking up more space at certain times of the month. Most importantly, I've stopped seeing these changes as something to overcome and instead recognize them as signs my body is working exactly as it should. The Turning Point: Understanding My Cycle In my early twenties, I began truly understanding my cycle as more than just "period days" and "non-period days." Learning about the four phases - menstrual, follicular, ovulation, and luteal - was revolutionary. I started noticing how my energy, creativity, and even my work performance shifted throughout my cycle. I discovered that my body wasn't broken or inconvenient - it was giving me valuable signals about my overall health. Tracking patterns helped me realize when something was off, like when stress delayed my period or when dietary changes affected my flow. Where I Am Today: Wisdom and Integration Now, 15 years into this journey, my relationship with my period has transformed completely. I've learned to work with my cycle instead of against it. I plan important presentations during my follicular phase when my energy is highest, save creative projects for my ovulation phase when my brain feels most innovative, and protect space for rest during my menstrual phase. Those early chocolate cravings? I now understand them as my body's way of asking for magnesium, and I proactively incorporate magnesium-rich foods throughout my cycle. The cramps that once had me curled up in bed? I've developed a personal toolkit of remedies - from specific movement practices to herbal teas to my trusty heating pad. While they haven't disappeared completely, I've learned to manage them much more effectively. What I Wish I Could Tell My Younger Self If I could go back and talk to 11-year-old me on that first period day, here's what I'd say: - Your period isn't something to hide or be embarrassed about - it's a powerful indicator of your health - Learn to track your cycle early - it will give you insights and control you never imagined - Find period products that actually fit your body - you deserve comfort and confidence - Build a community of period-positive friends who can share experiences and support - Pay attention to what your body is telling you through cravings and symptoms - Don't fight your body's natural rhythms - in fitness, energy, or appearance - Your body changing throughout the month isn't a flaw - it's biology working as designed Looking Forward As I move into my next 15 years of menstruation, I'm grateful for how far I've come. I'm passionate about helping the next generation of girls start their journey with better information, better products, and less shame than I had. That's why I'm so proud to be part of RedDrop's mission. Every time we help a tween find properly-sized period products or help a parent have an empowering conversation about periods with their child, we're changing the narrative. Here's to 15 years of growth, learning, and flow - and to all the girls just beginning their period journey today. Trust me, it gets better, and there's wisdom to be found in every cycle. Photography (right) by Andrew Werner Sterling P. Jones is a wellness writer and beauty expert who believes in empowering women through education. As the founder of The Beauté Study, she teaches women how beauty and wellness practices can be tools of personal power. Sterling specializes in cycle-conscious living and writes about the intersection of beauty, wellness, and feminine health. Her approach to period education combines cultural insight with practical guidance, helping young women understand their bodies as sources of strength rather than shame.

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Why Am I Craving Chocolate? Understanding Period Cravings for Parents & Tweens

Our Blog – by Sterling Jones – April 09, 2025

Why Am I Craving Chocolate? Understanding Period Cravings for Parents & Tweens

Have you ever wondered why your tween suddenly craves chocolate or salty snacks around their period? These cravings aren't just random. They're your body's way of asking for what it needs during menstruation! When Do Period Cravings Start? Period cravings typically begin during the luteal phase. It’s about 7-10 days before your period actually starts. This is when hormonal fluctuations kick in, with estrogen levels dropping and progesterone rising. These hormonal changes continue through your menstrual period as your body sheds its uterine lining. During menstruation, your body loses blood and nutrients, which can trigger specific cravings as your body tries to replenish what it's losing. It's completely normal and actually serves a purpose! Common Period Cravings & What They Mean Chocolate - If your tween is reaching for chocolate, their body might be seeking magnesium. Menstruation can deplete magnesium levels, and chocolate (especially dark chocolate) is rich in this important mineral. Ice - Chewing ice can help cool down someone who's feeling overheated during their period. But a strong craving for ice (called pica) can also indicate low iron levels, which is common during menstruation due to blood loss. Salty foods - Cravings for chips, fries, or other salty snacks might indicate your body needs more sodium. These foods can also boost serotonin levels, which helps improve mood during hormonal shifts. Increased hunger - Many tweens simply feel hungrier during their period. This is normal! Their body is working hard and needs more energy to replace lost nutrients. My Personal Experience Growing up, I had intense cravings for chocolate brownies and cups of ice during my period. It turns out I had low iron as a tween due to heavy periods. My doctor and mom helped me with iron supplements and vitamins to replenish what my body was losing. The chocolate cravings made perfect sense as my body needed magnesium! Dark chocolate is actually the best choice for period cravings because of its high magnesium content and other beneficial properties. My appetite also increased during my period, which is completely normal. Remember, your tween is not only losing blood and nutrients, but they're also a growing child who needs proper nourishment. Supporting Your Tween Understanding that period cravings are your body's way of communicating its needs can help tweens feel less confused about these new sensations. At RedDrop, we believe knowledge empowers tweens to listen to their bodies and respond with healthy choices. Sterling P. Jones is a wellness writer and beauty expert who believes in empowering women through education. As the founder of The Beauté Study, she teaches women how beauty and wellness practices can be tools of personal power. Sterling specializes in cycle-conscious living and writes about the intersection of beauty, wellness, and feminine health. Her approach to period education combines cultural insight with practical guidance, helping young women understand their bodies as sources of strength rather than shame.  

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Empowering Tweens with RedDrop's Bathroom Pass: Making School Life Easier

Our Blog – by Monica Williams – August 12, 2024

Empowering Tweens with RedDrop's Bathroom Pass: Making School Life Easier

For many tweens, navigating the challenges of middle school includes a mix of social pressures, academic demands, and the often awkward task of asking for an extra bathroom break. It might seem like a small issue, but for a young person, requesting an additional bathroom pass can be a big deal—especially when they’re dealing with their period. RedDrop’s innovative bathroom pass is here to change that, making life a little easier for tweens during their school day.Understanding the Need for Discreet Bathroom BreaksTweens are at a stage where privacy and fitting in with their peers are incredibly important. The thought of raising their hand to ask for an extra bathroom break can be daunting, especially if they’re worried about attracting attention or feeling embarrassed. This is particularly true for those who are new to managing their periods and might need more frequent bathroom visits to stay comfortable and confident throughout the day.RedDrop understands these challenges and has designed a solution that takes the stress out of asking for a bathroom pass. The RedDrop bathroom pass is more than just a tool—it’s a way to empower tweens, helping them feel in control of their needs without feeling self-conscious. 3 Ways RedDrop's Bathroom Pass WorksThe RedDrop bathroom pass is a simple yet powerful tool designed to make asking for an extra bathroom break as stress-free as possible. Here’s how it can make a difference:1. Discreet and Easy to Use: The pass is designed to be discreet and easy to use. Instead of having to announce to the class why they need to leave, students can simply show the pass to their teacher, signaling their need to go to the bathroom without drawing attention to themselves.2. Empowering Tweens with Confidence: Knowing they have a pass in their pocket gives tweens the confidence to take care of themselves without hesitation. Whether it’s dealing with unexpected period symptoms or just needing a quick break, having this pass allows them to manage their time and comfort independently.3. Reducing Anxiety and Discomfort: For many students, the fear of asking for an extra bathroom break can cause unnecessary anxiety. This can be especially true if they’re already feeling uncomfortable due to their period. RedDrop’s bathroom pass reduces this anxiety by giving them a simple, non-verbal way to communicate their needs, helping them stay focused and engaged in their schoolwork. The Bigger Picture: Promoting Health and Well-beingBeyond just providing a practical solution, RedDrop’s bathroom pass is about promoting the overall health and well-being of tweens. It’s a step towards normalizing discussions around periods and personal care in schools, helping to remove the stigma that can often surround these topics.By making it easier for students to manage their periods and other personal needs, RedDrop is helping to ensure that tweens can focus on what really matters: their education and personal growth. The bathroom pass is a small but significant way to give students the tools they need to succeed, both academically and emotionally.Our Bathroom Pass is A Small Change with A Big ImpactIn the grand scheme of school life, a bathroom pass might seem like a minor detail. But for tweens, having access to RedDrop’s bathroom pass can make a world of difference. It’s about more than just getting permission to leave the classroom; it’s about giving students the confidence and autonomy to manage their own needs without fear or embarrassment.As schools and parents look for ways to support tweens through the challenges of middle school, RedDrop’s bathroom pass is a simple, effective tool that can have a lasting impact on a student’s daily experience. By making something as basic as an extra bathroom break easier, we can help tweens feel more comfortable, supported, and ready to take on the world—one step at a time.

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How to Talk to Your Tween About Periods

Our Blog – by Monica Williams – May 29, 2024

How to Talk to Your Tween About Periods

Talking to your tween about periods can feel like a daunting task, especially if you're feeling a bit awkward or unsure about how to approach the subject. Rest assured, you're not alone in this feeling. Many parents and caregivers share the same concerns. However, having open and supportive conversations about menstruation is crucial in preparing your child for this important stage of development. Here are some tips to help you navigate these conversations in a supportive and empowering way. 1. Start Early and Normalize the Conversation It's never too early to begin talking about bodies and how they change. You can start introducing the concept of periods in simple terms as early as age 8 or 9, even if your child isn't showing signs of puberty yet. This helps to normalize the topic and reduces any stigma or embarrassment associated with it. 2. Create a Safe and Open Environment Make it clear to your child that no question is too embarrassing or off-limits. Reassure them that you're there to help and that periods are a normal and healthy part of growing up.Stay calm and positive: Your reaction sets the tone for the conversation, so try to avoid showing discomfort or embarrassment. Pay attention to your child's feelings and concerns. Let them lead the conversation and ask questions at their own pace. 3. Be Honest and Clear Use correct terminology and be honest about what periods are and why they happen. Simplify complex concepts but don’t shy away from providing clear and accurate information. 4. Use Positive and Empowering Language Use language that empowers and reassures your tween. Avoid terms that might make periods seem scary or negative. Help them see periods as a sign of their body’s health and growth. Build their confidence by reassuring them that they can care for their period with the right knowledge and tools. 5. Prepare Together Educate them on the variety of period products available to them. Show them how to use each product. Practice opening and applying a pad, or inserting a tampon if they’re comfortable. And, create a period kit together that ensures she’s ready when the time comes. To make it even easier, pick up one of our RedDrop kits that has everything she needs!  6. Addressing Myths and Misconceptions Calm her fears by debunking some common myths she may have heard such as “you can’t swim during your period” or “periods are always painful.” 7. Keep the Conversation Going You’ll likely need to have more than chat with your tween about puberty and menstruation. Continue to check in with her regularly about their period and any concerns they may have. Also, let her know she can come to you with any questions or problems at any time. 8. Seek Additional Support if Needed Consider sharing age-appropriate books and resources about puberty and menstruation with your tween. Reading and watching content together can provide a comfortable way to introduce the topic. RedDrop offers a variety of educational resources including books and digital classes right here on our website! And, you can also find additional educational videos on our YouTube page.  Finally, don’t hesitate to reach out to your child’s healthcare provider for additional support and information if needed. Conclusion Talking to your tween about periods doesn’t have to be awkward or uncomfortable. By starting early, creating a safe environment, and using positive language, you can help her feel confident and prepared for this important change. Remember, your support and openness can make all the difference in their journey through puberty!

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Understanding Breast Budding and the Path to Your First Period

Our Blog – by Monica Williams – April 17, 2024

Understanding Breast Budding and the Path to Your First Period

As you journey through the magical world of puberty, you might notice some changes happening in your body – one of the first signs being breast budding. But fear not! We're here to guide you through this exciting phase and help you feel confident and prepared every step of the way. What is Breast Budding? Breast budding is often an early signal of puberty. During breast budding, the area around your nipples (called the areola) may become slightly raised and tender to the touch. It's a perfectly normal and natural part of growing up!   When Does Breast Budding Happen? Breast budding typically begins around the ages of 8 to 13, but every girl is different, so don't fret if you start earlier or later than your friends. Remember, your body is unique and special, just like you! The Connection to Your First Period: Now, you might be wondering: What does breast budding have to do with getting my first period? Well, think of it as Mother Nature's way of preparing your body for the amazing journey ahead. As your breasts develop and grow, so do your ovaries, which play a crucial role in menstruation. So, consider breast budding as a friendly reminder from your body that exciting changes are on the horizon!   How to Prepare for Your Puberty Journey: Celebrate Your Uniqueness: Embrace your budding breasts as a symbol of growing up. You are growing and changing, and that's something to be celebrated! Talk About It: Don't be shy! Talk to your parents, guardians, or a trusted adult about what you're experiencing. They're here to support and guide you through this amazing journey. Choose Comfort: Invest in comfortable and supportive bras or bralettes to help ease any discomfort or tenderness during breast budding. We recommend Bleuet as a great choice for girls transitioning to their first bra. Remember, comfort is key! Practice Self-Care: Take time to care for yourself and your body. Treat yourself to things you enjoy, like your favorite hobbies to help you feel calm and centered. Stay Informed: Educate yourself about puberty, periods, and all the amazing changes happening in your body. That’s why RedDrop is here with education and tips to help you prepare. Knowledge is power, and the more you know, the more confident you'll feel!    Conclusion: As you embark on this incredible journey of growth and self-discovery, remember that you're not alone. We're here to support you every step of the way, cheering you on as you embrace your unique beauty and shine bright like the confident tween you are. Here's to celebrating your blossoming beauty and embracing the incredible adventure that lies ahead! 💖✨

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Glow Up: RedDrop’s Guide to Skincare During Your Period

Our Blog – by Monica Williams – April 17, 2024

Glow Up: RedDrop’s Guide to Skincare During Your Period

As you navigate the exciting journey of puberty and periods, taking care of your skin becomes super important – especially when those pesky breakouts pop up during your time of the month. But fear not! We've got all the tips and tricks to help you maintain that radiant glow and feel confident in your skin, even when on your period.   Why Do Breakouts Happen During Your Period? Ever noticed how your skin can go from smooth as silk to a breakout battleground right around that time of the month? Blame it on hormonal changes! As your body gears up for menstruation, hormone levels fluctuate, particularly estrogen and progesterone. These hormonal shifts can lead to increased oil production, clogged pores, and – you guessed it – breakouts.   Skincare Tips for a Flawless Glow: Keep It Clean: Start and end your day with a gentle cleanser to wash away dirt, oil, and impurities. Look for products with salicylic acid or benzoyl peroxide to help fight acne-causing bacteria. Consider using the Twiish Peach Clean Gel Cleanser which features gentle ingredients for young skin. Stay Hydrated: Drink plenty of water to keep your skin hydrated and healthy. Hydration is key to maintaining a clear complexion and reducing inflammation. Moisturize, Moisturize, Moisturize: Even if you have oily skin, moisturizing is a must! Opt for oil-free, non-comedogenic moisturizers to keep your skin hydrated without clogging pores. Banish Breakouts with Spot Treatments: For those stubborn pimples that just won't quit, spot treatments like Twiish Zit Ain’t Cute can help speed up the healing process and reduce redness. Don't Forget the Sunscreen: Protect your skin from harmful UV rays by wearing sunscreen every day, even when it's cloudy outside. Choose a broad-spectrum SPF 30 or higher and reapply every two hours. Hands Off!: Resist the urge to pick or pop your pimples! Picking can lead to scarring and further inflammation, making breakouts worse in the long run. Healthy Habits: Maintain a balanced diet rich in fruits, vegetables, and whole grains to support overall skin health. Limit sugary snacks and greasy foods, as they can exacerbate breakouts. Manage Stress: Stress can wreak havoc on your skin, so take time to relax and unwind. Practice stress-relief techniques like deep breathing, yoga, or meditation to keep your skin happy and healthy.   Remember: You're Beautiful Inside and Out! While skincare is important, it's equally important to embrace your unique beauty and always celebrate yourself. So whether your skin is flawless or you’re dealing with a few pesky pimples, always remember that you're beautiful just the way you are – period. Here's to glowing skin and unstoppable confidence, even on your period! 💖✨

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Understanding Period Cravings

Our Blog – by Monica Williams – March 21, 2024

Understanding Period Cravings

As tween girls embark on their puberty journey, they experience a whirlwind of changes, including hormonal fluctuations during menstruation. One aspect of these changes that often surprises them is the impact they can have on appetite and food cravings. In this blog, we'll explore why these changes occur and how to navigate them with a balanced approach to nutrition. Hormonal Changes and Appetite: During the menstrual cycle, hormonal fluctuations, particularly changes in estrogen and progesterone levels, can influence appetite and food preferences. While every girl's experience is unique, many notice distinct shifts in their cravings and hunger levels throughout their cycle. Phase 1: Menstruation (Days 1-5) During the initial days of menstruation, hormone levels drop, which can lead to feelings of fatigue and low energy. Many girls may experience cravings for foods rich in iron and nutrients to replenish lost stores. Foods like leafy greens, red meat, beans, and fortified cereals can help combat fatigue and support overall well-being during this phase. Phase 2: Follicular Phase (Days 6-14) As the menstrual cycle progresses, estrogen levels begin to rise, which can boost mood and energy levels. Girls may find themselves craving lighter, refreshing foods like fruits, vegetables, and salads. Incorporating a variety of colorful fruits and veggies into meals can provide essential vitamins and minerals while satisfying cravings for freshness. Phase 3: Ovulation (Day 14) Ovulation marks the midpoint of the menstrual cycle, where estrogen levels peak. Some girls may experience an increase in appetite and cravings for indulgent or high-calorie foods. While it's okay to enjoy treats, balancing them with nutrient-dense options like lean proteins, whole grains, and healthy fats can help maintain stable energy levels. Phase 4: Luteal Phase (Days 15-28) During the luteal phase, progesterone levels rise, which can lead to changes in mood and appetite. Many girls experience cravings for comfort foods like chocolate, sweets, and carbohydrates. While it's natural to indulge in cravings occasionally, opting for healthier alternatives like dark chocolate, whole grains, and fruits can help satisfy cravings without compromising nutrition. Conclusion: Understanding how hormonal changes during menstruation can impact appetite and food cravings is essential for tween girls and their caregivers. By tuning into their bodies and prioritizing balanced nutrition, girls can navigate these changes with confidence and support their overall health and well-being during this transformative time.

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Bathroom Pass Intro for Moms of Tweens

Our Blog – by Shopify API – October 21, 2023

Bathroom Pass Intro for Moms of Tweens

Navigating Periods at School: A Guide for Moms of Tweens OCTOBER 2023 Share: As your tween starts puberty, it's essential to equip her with the knowledge and confidence to handle her periods, especially when she's at school. In this article, we'll explore some valuable tips that you can share to make her first period experience at school as smooth and stress-free as possible. "Encourage your daughter to keep a small emergency kit in her school bag containing pads, tampons, wet wipes, and a spare pair of underwear. Being prepared ensures she won't be caught off guard, and it gives her the confidence to face the day without worries." Lily "After 250 hours of research and testing, including interviewing five baby wearing experts and walking over 100 miles in 15 wraps, slings, and meh dais, we think that the Gemlak Baby Carriers is the best" Lily Talking to Teachers or School Nurses It's important for your daughter to know that her teachers and the school nurse are there to help and support her. If she's feeling uncomfortable or needs assistance during school hours, she can approach her teacher or the school nurse discreetly. Encourage her to practice what she wants to say beforehand, so she feels confident when the situation arises (hint: our RedDrop bathroom pass can help if she’s feeling scared or nervous!) Teachers and school nurses are experienced in handling these situations with sensitivity and care, ensuring your daughter feels safe and supported while at school. Practice Makes Perfect It's important for your daughter to know that her teachers and the school nurse are there to help and support her. If she's feeling uncomfortable or needs assistance during school hours, she can approach her teacher or the school nurse discreetly. Encourage her to practice what she wants to say beforehand, so she feels confident when the situation arises (hint: our RedDrop bathroom pass can help if she’s feeling scared or nervous!) Teachers and school nurses are experienced in handling these situations with sensitivity and care, ensuring your daughter feels safe and supported while at school. Choose Comfortable Attire Help her pick out comfortable and breathable underwear. Tight clothes can be uncomfortable during periods, so opting for looser outfits might be a good idea. Layers are also great, allowing her to adjust her clothing based on how she feels. Know the Bathroom Locations Familiarize her with the locations of the school bathrooms. Sometimes, girls can feel embarrassed about asking, so knowing where to go can reduce anxiety. Talk Openly About Changing and Disposal Teach her the importance of changing her pad or tampon regularly to avoid discomfort and odors. Discuss discreet ways of carrying used products to the trash, like wrapping them in toilet paper or using disposal bags. Confidence Is Key Reassure your daughter that periods are a natural part of life, experienced by every woman. Confidence in herself and her body will help her face any challenges that come her way. Conclusion Navigating periods at school can be a daunting experience, but with your guidance and support, your tween can handle it with grace and confidence. By openly discussing these tips and encouraging her to embrace this new chapter, you're empowering her to face the world with confidence, even during her period days. Remember, your unwavering support makes all the difference in this journey! "For us, periods used to be the scariest time of the month! But thanks to RedDrop, my tween is always prepared with her little to-go bag for school. She's even given so pads to her friends once they were in need too!" - Lucille, Mom of Abby "I purchased the starter kit for my daughter and it came with the educational videos. I sat her down at the beginning of the summer and had her watch the videos so she could be ready. I was so glad I did when at the end of June she started her first cycle. Thanks to Red Drop it was such an easy transition. She knew just what to do and it allowed her and I to have more open conversations about what was happening and different types of pads etc. Her and I have actually bonded over this experience and Red Drop made it super easy!!" - Nicole Wallace Shop RedDrop

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Empowering Your Daughter’s Period Journey: Building the Perfect Period Kit

Our Blog – by Monica Williams – July 24, 2023

Empowering Your Daughter’s Period Journey: Building the Perfect Period Kit

  As parents, we understand that every milestone in our daughter’s life is precious and significant. One of these milestones is when they start their period, a moment of both excitement and uncertainty. To help them navigate this new phase with confidence and ease, we can create a thoughtful and well-prepared period kit. In this blog post, we’ll explore the importance of having a period kit ready and provide you with a comprehensive guide on assembling the perfect kit for your daughter’s unique needs. The Significance of a First Period Kit A first period kit is a lovingly crafted package that contains essential items to support our daughters during their first menstrual experience. It aims to offer comfort, reassurance, and practical solutions for managing their periods seamlessly. By having a well-prepared kit, we empower our daughters to embrace this natural part of growing up, making the transition more positive and memorable. Essential Items for the Perfect Period Kit   When creating your daughter’s first period kit, consider including the following key items: Menstrual Hygiene Products: Include various options such as pads, tampons, or reusable cloth pads to cater to her preferences and comfort. Educational Resources: Provide informative resources, such as books or pamphlets, to help her understand the menstrual cycle and period management. Personalized Underwear: Include a few pairs of her trusted and comfortable underwear to ensure she feels secure and confident during her period. Discreet Pouch or Bag: Choose a special pouch or bag to hold all the kit items, making it easy for her to carry discreetly in her backpack or purse. Period Tracking Journal: Encourage her to track her cycle with a cute period journal, helping her become more aware of her body’s changes and patterns. Wet Wipes or Cleansing Towelettes: Ensure she has a hygienic option for freshening up on-the-go during her period.     Introducing RedDrop’s Solution While building a DIY period kit is a wonderful and personalized approach, we also want to introduce you to a reliable solution that complements your efforts in preparing your daughter for her period journey. The RedDrop Period Kit contains a variety of pads and everything a girl needs for the moment her cycle begins, packaged to remind her that she’s special. No need to select a size or level of absorbency - we pack a variety of pads in 3 sizes, so she’s ready for whatever life throws at you both. Remember, creating a period kit for your daughter is an act of love and support, empowering her to embrace this natural transition with grace and confidence. Let’s ensure that she is always prepared for any situation during her period journey.  

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Natural Remedies for Period Cramps: Tips to Relieve Discomfort

Our Blog – by Monica Williams – July 24, 2023

Natural Remedies for Period Cramps: Tips to Relieve Discomfort

Period cramps, also known as dysmenorrhea, are a common discomfort experienced by many women during their menstrual cycle. These cramps can range from mild to severe and may interfere with daily activities. While over-the-counter pain relievers can provide relief, there are also natural remedies that can help ease period cramps and improve overall well-being. In this blog post, we’ll explore some effective natural remedies to alleviate period cramps and make that time of the month more manageable. Understanding Period Cramps Menstrual cramps are caused by contractions in the uterus, which are triggered by hormonal changes, particularly prostaglandins. During menstruation, the uterus contracts and sheds its lining, leading to the characteristic cramping sensation. For some women, cramps may be mild and manageable, while others may experience more intense pain. Effective Natural Remedies for Period Cramps Heating Pad: Applying a heating pad or a warm water bottle to the lower abdomen can help relax the uterine muscles and reduce cramping. Herbal Tea: Certain herbal teas, like chamomile or ginger tea, can have soothing effects and may help alleviate menstrual cramps. Light Exercise: Engaging in light physical activity, such as walking or gentle yoga, can stimulate the release of endorphins, which act as natural pain relievers. Essential Oils: Aromatherapy with essential oils like lavender or peppermint may help ease discomfort and promote relaxation during menstruation . Omega-3 Fatty Acids: Consuming foods rich in omega-3 fatty acids, such as flaxseeds or fatty fish, may help reduce inflammation and alleviate period cramps. Stay Hydrated: Drinking plenty of water can help prevent bloating and may reduce the intensity of cramps. Magnesium: Taking magnesium supplements or consuming magnesium-rich foods like bananas or dark chocolate may help relax muscles and ease cramping. Acupuncture: Some women find relief from menstrual cramps through acupuncture, which involves the insertion of thin needles at specific points in the body. Mindful Relaxation Techniques: Practicing relaxation techniques like deep breathing or meditation can help reduce stress and muscle tension during menstruation. Period cramps are a common and natural part of a woman’s menstrual cycle, but they don’t have to be a source of debilitating pain. By incorporating these natural remedies into your routine, you can find relief and make your menstrual experience more comfortable and manageable. As with any health concern, it’s essential to listen to your body and consult a healthcare professional if your cramps are severe or persistently troublesome. Embrace these natural remedies and regain control over your menstrual discomfort, allowing you to live your life more comfortably during that time of the month.

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Debunking Menstrual Myths: Empowering Teens with Accurate Information

Our Blog – by Monica Williams – July 20, 2023

Debunking Menstrual Myths: Empowering Teens with Accurate Information

  As a teenager, you might have heard various myths and misconceptions surrounding menstruation. It’s essential to separate fact from fiction to make informed decisions about your body and health. This blog post aims to debunk common menstrual myths and provide you with accurate information about periods. Let’s dive into these myths and uncover the truths that every teen should know. Myth 1: You Cannot Exercise While You Are On Your Period One of the most prevalent myths is that you should avoid exercise during your period. In reality, exercise can be beneficial during menstruation. Physical activity can help reduce menstrual cramps, boost mood, and alleviate bloating. Engaging in light to moderate exercises like walking, yoga, or swimming can be incredibly beneficial during your period.     Myth 2: It’s Not Safe to Swim During Your Period Many girls believe that swimming during their period is unsafe or unhygienic. The truth is that swimming during menstruation is entirely safe. Menstrual blood is not unclean or harmful in the water. Using menstrual products like tampons or menstrual cups can prevent any leakage and allow you to enjoy swimming with confidence.   Myth 3: Your Period Should Last Exactly One Week Each Month   Some girls may worry if their periods don’t follow a strict one-week schedule each month. However, menstrual cycle lengths can vary from person to person. It is entirely normal for periods to last anywhere from three to seven days. Irregularities in cycle length are common, especially during the first few years after starting menstruation. Myth 4: Irregular Periods Are Abnormal   It’s essential to distinguish between irregular periods and abnormal periods. Irregular periods are common, especially in the early stages of menstruation. However, if you experience exceptionally heavy bleeding, severe pain, or irregularities that persist for an extended period, it’s essential to consult a healthcare professional.   Myth 5: Menstrual Pain Is Normal and Must Be Endured While some discomfort is common during menstruation, severe and debilitating pain is not. Menstrual pain can be managed through various methods, including heat therapy, over-the-counter pain relievers, and lifestyle changes. If pain is interfering with your daily life, seeking medical advice is recommended. Empowering Tweens with Knowledge Being informed and educated about menstruation empowers teens to embrace their bodies confidently. Here are some essential steps: Education and Open Communication: Seek reliable sources of information and engage in open conversations with parents, caregivers, or healthcare professionals about menstruation. Menstrual Hygiene: Learn about different menstrual products and how to maintain proper menstrual hygiene for comfort and health. Understanding Menstrual Cycle: Educate yourself about the menstrual cycle, including the phases and the typical duration of periods. Period Tracking: Track your menstrual cycle to understand patterns and changes over time. There are apps available to make tracking easier. Normalize Conversations: Encourage open discussions about menstruation with friends and peers to break the stigma and foster a supportive community.   By debunking these menstrual myths, you are equipped with accurate information to make informed decisions about your health and well-being. Embrace your body, celebrate menstruation as a natural part of growing up, and remember that being informed empowers you to make choices that are best for your body and lifestyle. Let’s break the stigma surrounding periods and empower the next generation of young women to view menstruation as a normal and beautiful part of their journey to adulthood.

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Early Period Signs and Symptoms: Navigating Puberty with Your Daughter

Our Blog – by Monica Williams – July 24, 2023

Early Period Signs and Symptoms: Navigating Puberty with Your Daughter

Puberty is a significant and transformative stage in every child’s life, marking the transition from childhood to adulthood. As parents, it’s essential to understand the signs and symptoms of early puberty to support our daughters through this period of change. In this blog post, we’ll explore the various aspects of early puberty, discuss its signs and symptoms, and provide guidance on how to navigate this journey with our daughters. Understanding Early Puberty Puberty is a natural process that occurs when the body undergoes various physical, emotional, and hormonal changes, preparing the child for adulthood and reproduction. Typically, girls begin puberty between the ages of 8 and 13, but sometimes, it may start earlier, leading to what’s known as early puberty or precocious puberty. Signs and Symptoms of Early Puberty The signs of early puberty in girls may include: Breast Development: One of the earliest signs is the development of breast buds, followed by breast growth. Body Hair: Girls may experience growth in pubic or underarm hair at an earlier age than expected. Growth Spurt: Rapid growth and changes in body shape and size may occur during early puberty. Acne: The development of acne or pimples is common during puberty. Body Odor: Increased production of sweat and changes in hormonal levels can lead to the onset of body odor. Causes and Impact of Early Puberty The exact cause of early puberty is often unknown, but certain factors like genetic predisposition, ethnicity, and environmental influences may play a role. It’s essential to monitor and address early puberty as it can have physical, emotional, and psychological consequences on a child’s development. Supporting Your Daughter Through Early Puberty As parents, we can offer support and guidance during this transformative phase of our daughter’s life. Here are some ways to navigate early puberty together: Open Communication: Initiate open and honest conversations with your daughter about the changes she is experiencing, addressing any questions or concerns she may have. Educational Resources: Provide informative books or articles that explain puberty and its physical and emotional changes to help her understand the process better. Consulting a Healthcare Provider: If you suspect early puberty, consult a pediatric endocrinologist to assess and address any underlying concerns. Body Positivity: Encourage a positive body image and self-confidence by fostering a supportive environment and emphasizing the importance of individuality. Empathy and Understanding: Be patient and understanding as your daughter navigates through the emotional and physical changes of early puberty, offering reassurance and guidance along the way. Early puberty can be a time of uncertainty and change for both parents and their daughters. By understanding the signs and symptoms, and providing a supportive and nurturing environment, we can empower our daughters to embrace this transformative phase with confidence and self-assurance. Together, we can navigate this journey and build a strong foundation for their future well-being and happiness.

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Dealing with Irregular Periods: A Guide for Tween Girls

Our Blog – by Monica Williams – June 06, 2023

Dealing with Irregular Periods: A Guide for Tween Girls

Starting your period is an exciting milestone, but it’s important to remember that everyone’s experience is unique. Some girls may have irregular periods initially, meaning their cycles may not follow a consistent pattern. If you find yourself in this situation, don’t worry! In this blog post, we’ll provide a helpful guide for tweens like you, focusing on understanding and coping with irregular periods. What Are Irregular Periods? Irregular periods refer to menstrual cycles that do not follow a predictable pattern. It’s common for girls who have recently started menstruating to experience irregularity as their bodies adjust to hormonal changes. Your period might come early, late, or even skip some months. It can be frustrating, but remember that it’s a normal part of the menstrual journey.   Tracking Your Periods Keeping track of your periods is an excellent way to monitor any irregularities and gain a better understanding of your cycle. Use a calendar, a period tracking app, or a dedicated journal to record the start and end dates of each period. Over time, you may notice patterns emerging, even if they’re not entirely regular.   Causes of Irregular Periods Several factors can contribute to irregular periods in tween girls. Hormonal changes, stress, rapid growth, changes in weight, diet, or exercise, and certain medical conditions can all play a role. It’s important to remember that irregular periods are often temporary and can become more regular as your body matures. Communicate with a Trusted Adult Talking to a trusted adult, such as your mom, guardian, or a healthcare provider, about your irregular periods is crucial. They can provide guidance, answer your questions, and offer support. Sharing your concerns will help you feel less anxious and more prepared to deal with any challenges that may arise.   Healthy Lifestyle Choices Maintaining a healthy lifestyle can help regulate your menstrual cycle. Eat a balanced diet, rich in fruits, vegetables, whole grains, and lean proteins. Stay hydrated and limit your intake of sugary and processed foods. Regular exercise can also promote overall well-being and balance hormone levels. Find activities you enjoy, whether it’s dancing, swimming, cycling, or playing a sport.     Be Prepared Since irregular periods can catch you by surprise, it’s essential to be prepared. Keep a small supply of sanitary products, such as pads or tampons, in your backpack or locker. You can also consider using panty liners when you anticipate your period might arrive soon. Being prepared ensures that you can manage your periods comfortably and confidently, even with irregularity.   When to Seek Help While irregular periods are common during puberty, some situations may warrant medical attention. If you experience extremely heavy bleeding, severe pain, or if your periods remain irregular for an extended period, consult a healthcare professional. They can assess your situation and provide guidance or treatments if necessary. Irregular periods can be a challenging aspect of starting your menstrual journey, but remember that you’re not alone. It’s a normal part of growing up, and most girls experience irregularities initially. By tracking your periods, maintaining a healthy lifestyle, and seeking support when needed, you can navigate irregular periods with confidence. Embrace this learning experience and know that your body will find its rhythm in due time.  

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Understanding Your Menstrual Cycle: A Guide for Teens

Our Blog – by Monica Williams – June 06, 2023

Understanding Your Menstrual Cycle: A Guide for Teens

As a teenager, your body goes through many changes, including the start of your menstrual cycle. It’s natural to have questions and concerns about this process. In this blog post, we will delve into the basics of the menstrual cycle to help you understand what is happening in your body and feel more confident about this important aspect of womanhood.   1. What is the Menstrual Cycle? The menstrual cycle is a monthly process that prepares your body for the possibility of pregnancy. It involves hormonal changes and the shedding of the uterine lining. On average, the menstrual cycle lasts about 28 days, but it can vary from person to person.   2. Phases of the Menstrual Cycle Menstruation: The cycle begins with menstruation, commonly known as your period. During this phase, the lining of your uterus is shed, resulting in bleeding that can last from three to seven days. Follicular Phase: Following menstruation, the follicular phase begins. Hormones trigger the development of follicles in the ovaries, which contain eggs. One follicle matures, while the others dissolve. Ovulation: Midway through the cycle, around day 14, ovulation occurs. The mature follicle releases an egg into the fallopian tube, making it available for fertilization by sperm. This is the most fertile phase of your cycle. Luteal Phase: After ovulation, the luteal phase begins. The ruptured follicle, now called the corpus luteum, produces progesterone, which prepares the uterus for a potential pregnancy. If fertilization doesn’t occur, the corpus luteum breaks down.     3. Hormonal Changes The menstrual cycle is regulated by hormones, primarily estrogen and progesterone. These hormones fluctuate throughout the cycle, causing physical and emotional changes. Estrogen levels rise during the follicular phase, while progesterone levels increase during the luteal phase. 4. Understanding Your Body Knowing your body and recognizing the signs of your menstrual cycle can be empowering. Pay attention to changes in vaginal discharge, breast tenderness, and mood swings. You may also experience bloating, mild cramping, or changes in energy levels during different phases of your cycle.   5. Tracking Your Cycle Tracking your menstrual cycle can help you understand its regularity and predict when your next period is due. You can use a calendar, a period tracking app, or special devices designed for cycle tracking. This information can be useful for planning and managing your daily activities. Understanding the basics of your menstrual cycle is an important step towards embracing your womanhood. By knowing the different phases, hormonal changes, and how to track your cycle, you can gain control over your body and be prepared for the changes that come with each month. Remember, everyone’s cycle is unique, so don’t hesitate to reach out to a trusted adult or healthcare professional if you have any concerns or questions. Embrace this natural process, and remember that you are not alone in this journey.

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Different Period Products - What's The Best Option For Your Tween?

Our Blog – by Monica Williams – March 08, 2023

Different Period Products - What's The Best Option For Your Tween?

As a mom of a young girl who is starting or has recently started her period, it's important to understand the different period products available so you can help her make the best choice for her body and lifestyle. Let's take a look at some of the most common period products and their pros and cons:   1. Pads Pads are the most traditional and widely used period product. They come in different shapes and sizes, including ultra-thin, regular, and overnight pads. They are worn on the inside of underwear to absorb menstrual blood. Pros: Easy to use, simply stick onto underwear. Come in a variety of absorbencies and sizes to fit individual needs. Can be used for light to heavy flows. No risk of toxic shock syndrome (TSS). Can be used overnight without risk of leakage. Cons: Can feel bulky and uncomfortable, especially during physical activity. Can cause skin irritation and odor. Need to be changed frequently to avoid leaks and odors. Generate more waste than other products. If your daughter is new to menstruation or doesn't want to insert anything into her vagina, pads may be the best option for her. They come in a variety of sizes and absorbencies to fit her needs, and can be used overnight without risk of leakage. However, if she is active or wants something less bulky, she may want to consider other options. 2. Tampons Tampons are inserted into the vagina to absorb menstrual blood. They come in different absorbencies, from light to super plus, and with or without applicators. Pros: Invisible and comfortable to wear, even during physical activity. Easy to use once you get the hang of it. Can be used for light to heavy flows. Generate less waste than pads. Cons: Can be difficult to insert and remove, especially for first-time users. Higher risk of toxic shock syndrome (TSS) if not changed frequently. Can cause vaginal dryness and discomfort if not used correctly. If your daughter is active or wants something more discreet than pads, tampons may be a good option. They are easy to use once you get the hang of them, and can be worn during physical activity without feeling bulky. However, they do have a higher risk of TSS if not changed frequently, so your daughter will need to be diligent about changing them. They may also cause vaginal dryness and discomfort if not used correctly, so make sure she understands how to insert and remove them properly. 3. Menstrual Cups Menstrual cups are reusable silicone cups that are inserted into the vagina to collect menstrual blood. They come in different sizes to fit different body types. Pros: Can be used for up to 12 hours without needing to be changed. Can be worn overnight. Can be used for years, making them a more sustainable option. Lower risk of TSS compared to tampons. Don't cause dryness or irritation. Cons: Can be difficult to insert and remove, especially for first-time users. Can be messy to clean and require boiling before and after use. Need to be washed and dried before reusing. If your daughter is environmentally conscious or wants a product that can be worn for longer periods of time, menstrual cups may be a good choice. They can be used for up to 12 hours without needing to be changed, and can be worn overnight. They are also more sustainable, since they can be used for years. However, they can be difficult to insert and remove, especially for first-time users, and may be messy to clean. 4. Period Underwear Period underwear is a relatively new product that is designed to absorb menstrual blood without the need for any additional products. They come in different absorbencies and sizes. Pros: Can be used alone or as backup with other period products. Comfortable to wear and easy to use. Can be worn for light to moderate flows. More sustainable than disposable products. Cons: May not provide enough protection for heavy flows. Need to be washed before reusing. May feel damp or uncomfortable after prolonged wear. If your daughter is looking for a more sustainable option or wants something comfortable to wear without any additional products, period underwear may be a good choice. They can be used alone or as backup with other products, and are easy to use. However, they may not provide enough protection for heavy flows and need to be washed before reusing. Ultimately, the best period product for your daughter will depend on her personal preference and lifestyle. It's a good idea to encourage her to try different products and see what works best for her. Remind her that it's normal to feel a little uncomfortable at first, but with practice and patience, using period products can become second nature.

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A Teenager's Guide To Starting Their First Period

Our Blog – by Monica Williams – March 08, 2023

A Teenager's Guide To Starting Their First Period

Starting their first period is a big milestone in every teenage girl's life. It can also be a confusing and overwhelming experience, especially if the period starts when your tween is relatively young. But with a little bit of knowledge and preparation, you and your daughter can navigate this new chapter with confidence. Here are some tips to help your tween get started:   1. Understand what's happening Your period is a natural and normal part of growing up. It's a sign that your body is maturing and preparing for the possibility of pregnancy. Your period is caused by changes in hormones that trigger the release of an egg from your ovaries. If the egg is not fertilized, it leaves your body along with the lining of your uterus, which causes bleeding.   2. Know what to expect Your period can last anywhere from three to seven days, and you'll likely experience some physical symptoms, such as cramps and bloating. You may also experience emotional changes, such as mood swings and irritability. It's important to be prepared by having the necessary supplies, such as pads or tampons, and to talk to your doctor if you experience severe pain or heavy bleeding.   3. Be prepared Before you start your period, make sure you have everything you need. You may want to keep pads or tampons in your backpack or purse, so you're always prepared. It's also a good idea to keep a calendar or an app to track your cycle, so you know when to expect your next period.   4. Talk to someone Starting your period can be a confusing and emotional experience, but you don't have to go through it alone. Talk to your mom, a trusted friend, or your doctor about any questions or concerns you may have. They can help you navigate this new chapter in your life and provide support and guidance.   5. Be kind to yourself Your period is a natural and normal part of growing up, but it can also be a challenging experience. It's important to be kind to yourself and practice self-care during this time. Treat yourself to a relaxing bath or your favorite snack. Take some time to rest and relax when you need it.   Remember, every girl is different, and there's no right or wrong way to experience your first period. Don't be afraid to ask questions or reach out for support if you need it. With a little bit of knowledge and preparation, you can navigate this new chapter in your life with confidence and ease.

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6 Tips for Reducing Period Cramps: A Guide for Moms and Daughters

Our Blog – by Monica Williams – January 24, 2023

6 Tips for Reducing Period Cramps: A Guide for Moms and Daughters

Period cramps can be a major source of discomfort and inconvenience for teenage girls, but there are ways to alleviate the pain without using pain relievers. As a mom, you can play an important role in helping your daughter manage her menstrual symptoms. Here are five tips for reducing period cramps naturally:   1. Use heat therapy Applying heat to the lower abdominal area can help to relax the muscles and reduce cramps. A heating pad, hot water bottle, or even a warm shower or bath can be effective in relieving cramps. 2. Exercise regularly Regular exercise can help reduce cramps and relieve stress. Encourage your daughter to engage in regular physical activity such as walking, running or swimming, as long as she feels comfortable doing it during her period.   3. Eat a balanced diet Eating a diet that is rich in fruits, vegetables, and whole grains can help reduce inflammation and improve overall health. Avoid processed foods, salt, and sugar as they can cause bloating and worsen cramps. 4. Try yoga and relaxation techniques Yoga, meditation and relaxation techniques can help reduce stress and tension, which can worsen cramps. Encourage your daughter to try different techniques such as deep breathing, progressive muscle relaxation, or guided imagery.   5. Consider using a menstrual cup Menstrual cups are an eco-friendly alternative to pads and tampons, can be worn for long hours, and can help to reduce cramps. They can be an effective option for reducing cramps caused by the use of sanitary products. It's important to note that some girls may have more severe cramps that require additional medical attention, in those cases it's good to seek guidance from their healthcare provider. Additionally, it's important to remember that everyone's body is different and what works for one person may not work for another, so encourage your daughter to experiment with different strategies and find the ones that work best for her. By providing support and offering helpful tips, you can help your daughter manage her period cramps and make her menstrual experience more comfortable without relying on pain relievers.

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Preparing for Your Daughter's First Period: What to Expect and How to Get Ready

Our Blog – by Monica Williams – January 24, 2023

Preparing for Your Daughter's First Period: What to Expect and How to Get Ready

As a mother, it can be both exciting and overwhelming to think about your daughter's first period. As a mom you are probably wondering when it will happen, what it will be like and how to prepare for it. First, it's important to understand that the age at which a girl gets her first period can vary widely. Some girls may start as early as age 8, while others may not start until they are 16. But most girls will start between the ages of 11 and 14. When your daughter's first period does arrive, it's important to be prepared. This means having supplies on hand, such as pads or tampons, and knowing how to use them. It's also important to talk to your daughter about what to expect during her period, including menstrual cramps, bloating, and mood swings. Be open to listening and addressing any concerns she might have, and don't hesitate to seek advice from your daughter's healthcare provider if you need more information. You can also help your daughter prepare by teaching her about the menstrual cycle, the anatomy and the hormones involved, and how to track it. This way she'll be better equipped to understand what's happening in her body and how to manage her symptoms. It's also a good idea to have a plan in place for when your daughter starts her period at school or away from home. Encourage her to keep a stash of supplies in her backpack or purse, so she's always prepared. Remember that your daughter's first period can be a big transition, so don't be afraid to talk openly with her about it. Emphasize that it's a normal and natural part of growing up, and that there's nothing to be ashamed of. This will help her feel more comfortable and confident during this new phase of her life. Overall, preparing for your daughter's first period can be an exciting and empowering experience for both of you. By being informed, having supplies on hand, and being open to discussion, you can help your daughter navigate this new stage in her life with confidence.

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Navigating the Emotions of Your First Period: How to Cope with the Changes

Our Blog – by Monica Williams – January 24, 2023

Navigating the Emotions of Your First Period: How to Cope with the Changes

For many girls, getting their first period can be an exciting yet overwhelming experience. Along with the physical changes that come with menstruation, girls may also experience a range of emotions such as nervousness, uncertainty, and even fear. As a mom, it's important to understand these emotions and be there to support your daughter as she navigates this new stage in her life. Here are some tips for coping with the emotional changes of a first period:   1. Talk openly and honestly with your daughter Encourage your daughter to talk openly with you about her feelings and any concerns she may have. Listen actively, offer reassurance and validation of her feelings. It can be helpful to share your own experiences with menstruation to help her understand that these emotions are normal and to help build a sense of trust and understanding. 2. Address any fears or misconceptions Some girls may have fears or misconceptions about menstruation. It's important to address these fears head-on and provide accurate information to help ease her mind. For example, explain that periods are a normal and natural part of growing up and that there is nothing to be ashamed of.   3. Create a plan Having a plan in place can help ease any anxiety your daughter may have about her first period. This could include having supplies on hand, discussing what to do if her period starts unexpectedly, and having a backup plan in place for times when she's away from home. 4. Practice self-care Encourage your daughter to take care of herself during her period by getting enough rest, staying hydrated, and exercising. This can help her manage symptoms such as cramps and mood swings and promote a sense of control over her body.   5. Remind her that this is normal Remind her that every girl goes through this and that is nothing to be ashamed of. Help her understand that it's a normal part of growing up and that she's not alone in this experience. Remember that everyone's experience with menstruation is different, and what works for one girl may not work for another. The most important thing is to be there to support your daughter and offer a listening ear as she navigates this new stage in her life. By fostering open communication and providing accurate information, you can help your daughter cope with the emotional changes of her first period.

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Period 101: A 5 Step Beginner's Guide to Menstruation for Moms

Our Blog – by Monica Williams – January 24, 2023

Period 101: A 5 Step Beginner's Guide to Menstruation for Moms

As a mom, you may be feeling a mix of excitement and uncertainty as your daughter approaches her first period. Understanding the basics of menstruation can help ease any anxiety and ensure that you're both prepared for this new stage in her life. Here is a 5 step beginner's guide to menstruation to help get you started:   1. Explain to her what the menstrual cycle is The menstrual cycle is the process by which a woman's body prepares for pregnancy. It is controlled by hormones and takes about 28 days on average. During the menstrual cycle, the lining of the uterus is shed, resulting in a period. Understanding the menstrual cycle can help you and your daughter anticipate when her period might start, how long it will last, and what symptoms she might experience. 2. Educate her about different menstrual products There are several options for menstrual products, including pads, tampons, and menstrual cups. Each product has its own pros and cons, so it's important to discuss with your daughter which one she might feel most comfortable using. You can also help her understand how to use these products properly and safely.   3. Make a plan for when the period starts It's a good idea to have a plan in place for when your daughter's period starts. Encourage her to always carry menstrual supplies with her, in case her period starts unexpectedly, and have a backup plan in place for times when she's away from home. 4. Talk about the emotional side Your daughter's first period may come with a range of emotions, from excitement to nervousness. Be open to talking about these feelings with your daughter and help her understand that it's normal to feel this way.   5. Consider natural remedies Some girls find relief from menstrual symptoms with natural remedies such as heat pads, herbal tea and regular exercise. Be open to trying these options and discuss with your daughter which one might work best for her. Remember that everyone's body is different and what works for some may not work for others, so it's important to listen to your daughter's feedback.

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5 Foods Tweens Should Avoid While On Their Period

Our Blog – by Monica Williams – January 24, 2023

5 Foods Tweens Should Avoid While On Their Period

As a teenager, your period can come with a variety of new experiences, including cramps, bloating, and mood swings. While there's no one-size-fits-all diet for managing these symptoms, there are certain foods that can make them worse. Here are six foods to avoid during your period to help make it a little more bearable:   1. Processed Snacks Processed snacks like chips, cookies, and candy are often high in sodium and sugar, which can make bloating and cramps worse. Instead, try snacking on fruits and vegetables or opt for whole-grain crackers or popcorn. 2. Energy Drinks Energy drinks are high in caffeine, which can disrupt your hormones and make menstrual symptoms worse. Stick to water or herbal tea to stay hydrated and avoid added caffeine.   3. Salt Sodium can cause your body to retain water and make bloating and swelling worse. Try to limit your intake of salty foods such as fast food, frozen dinners, and canned soups during your period. 4. Fried Foods Fried foods can be heavy and difficult to digest, which can be uncomfortable during your period. Opt for grilled or baked foods instead, they are much easier on your stomach.   5. Dairy Products Dairy products like milk, cheese, and ice cream can increase inflammation in the body and worsen cramps. If you're prone to bloating and cramps, try cutting back on your intake of dairy during your period. It's important to remember that everyone's body is different, and you should listen to your own body to see what foods work best for you. Additionally, don't forget to stay active, get enough sleep and hydrate regularly to help reduce the discomfort caused by your period.

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Dropping Kits!

Our Blog – by Admin Reddrop – May 28, 2019

Dropping Kits!

Sorry that it's been so long...start-ups are interesting things. Everyone is doing so much that is both in and out of your wheelhouse. Some of the tasks are thrilling and feel like you're making the world turn, then some are soul-crushingly mundane.  One really cool thing we did this month was to drop some kits on some inspiring amazing girls in Atlanta Public Schools and Fulton County Schools here in Atlanta. We visited Wesley International Academy, Brown Middle, Woodson Park Academy and Woodland Middle School. We don't have photo releases from their parents yet...so we can't show too many pics. But let it suffice to say that it was awesome to meet and interact with these ladies and to give them something that we know will be useful. We thank you for the opportunity to do that!  

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Brown Middle School & RedDrop

Our Blog – by Dana Roberts – April 08, 2019

Brown Middle School & RedDrop

Brown Girls love STEM, RedDrop does too!  We were grateful for the opportunity granted by the National Coalition of 100 Black Women, Metro Atlanta Chapter to engage with the girls STEM team at Brown Middle School this week. It was super important to us to show another side of STEM as it relates to health and wellness. Red Drop wanted to  have conversations with the girls about their experiences with feminine hygiene products, what they feel is important to them in their products and honestly, what is not working well and what we can do about it.  The stimulating STEM girls were very forthright about their needs and what they disliked. We had a chance to explain our mission and vision for girls and why their voices needed to be heard, while showing them that this is STEM! The girls really enjoyed the scientific portion of our presentation, putting our products to the test. Several different groups of girls poured varying amounts of water in our pads to test the absorbency and how they felt after they were wet. I’m happy to say, our pads exceeded their expectations.        Finally, we wanted to drive home the fact that “our” voices as a collective should be heard and honored during the creation process of products. We challenged the girls to not just be consumers, but to be “creators” and to move the idea pass just a dream. Make it a reality! Here at Red Drop we are the voice for girls as they find their own. Watch out, as we hear them roar!    

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Nightmare First Period

Our Blog – by Monica Williams – February 14, 2019

Nightmare First Period

My sixth grader and I are working together on her SSAT prep. Somedays it goes great, and somedays...not so great. Her favorite part of the prep is the essay portion. The practice gives them the steps to a good essay and then practice prompts. She has gone through all of the practice essay prompts. So today she made up her own. She enjoys creative writing, and she has been walking the RedDrop journey with us all, so I wasn't surprised with her subject matter. But I definitely wanted to share - our mission is truly that this won't happen to any girl. Please help us (and forgive the absolute lack of capitalization and punctuation; its still a work in-progress!). As the girl crept behind her classroom door to get to the bathroom, the teacher caught her and asked where she was off-to. She quietly said “to the bathroom,” as she looked at her pants in despair. The teacher chuckled and told her that she “knows the rules, no bathroom while he is teaching.” She took a deep breath and said softly “I’m on my period.” The teacher replied and said “say that louder.” She was wasting time, the blood ran down her leg and stained her brightly colored yellow leggings. “I’m on my period!” She screamed. The whole class stopped writing and looked at her. They all saw the red streak on her leggings and started laughing. The teacher quickly said in a soft voice “go clean yourself up.” As soon as he said that she ran out of the door and hurried herself into the bathroom and started to cry. “How could he” she yelled “how could he!”

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Welcome to RedDrop!

Our Blog – by Dana Roberts – February 11, 2019

Welcome to RedDrop!

  You have probably been researching first-periods, what made us write these blogs is that we found a lot of information, but not many places to get all of the information you may need in one place. It is mind boggling to us why girls are still left to “figure things out themselves.” We think that’s not fair. We are here to help. We have talked to men who are single dads when their daughter started their period, brothers whose parents were incapacitated either by drugs or illness when their little sister started their period, and moms who were completely unprepared when their third-grader “suddenly” started menstruating. We are here for you. While there has been considerable innovation in period products: reusable pads, menstrual cups, organic pads and tampons, menstrual disks, etc. There still isn’t a way for dads, brothers, and other male caregivers to be a part of the story with an appropriate vocabulary and understanding of what, when, why and how. As well, there isn’t really a place for moms to come to help start the conversation, especially if their mom didn’t have it with them, and to know about the newest products for their young daughters. The conversation needs to happen sooner (the age for first periods in America continues to get younger and younger) and what is the appropriate puberty language for a 3rd grader! And finally for girls. It’s still most comfortable to learn from your friends and same-age cousins, but how do you know that the information they’re sharing is correct? We want to help fact-check in an age appropriate and conscientious way. This is why Red Drop was created: menstrual products created with the first-period experience in mind and in the spirit of girls. We want the first period to be the best period. Our team draws on the expertise of women who have very light periods and women who have periods and cramps so bad that they were homeschooled. On physicians and writers and marketers and teachers. Our hope is to both provide you with the products to serve girls and the information to serve them and their support systems to make the most comfortable first-periods and subsequent periods. We believe that if we can change this experience we can change the world. happy reading! Monica (first period 17) Kaivan Dana (first period ) Mike Darren Jarrod

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What You Need to Know About a Girls’ First Period

Our Blog – by Dana Roberts – February 08, 2019

What You Need to Know About a Girls’ First Period

As a mom and an educator, I’ve experienced many “firsts” with girls as they start their very first period. It’s something that is guaranteed (unless there is an underlying medical condition) to happen and the signs are almost always right in front of us. Our mission at RedDrop is to help you see the signs and empower your girl for her first. I’ve personally seen too many girls in tears and too many moms embarrassed, ashamed and down right in denial about this natural next step in their girl’s life. Together, for the sake of all girls, we are going to educate and empower ourselves so that our girls can, in turn, educate their daughters – empowering generations to come. I can honestly say that the first period signs are ever present, but we sometimes are just dismissive and don’t see them. While this article won’t address every visual, physical or emotional cue, my hope is that this article will do a couple of things; empower you to be present, which means to be mindful, observant and engaged in this phase of your daughter’s life. Secondly, this article will arm and empower you with a trusted resource of information as well as encourages you to read and research on your own. It’s not an easy topic, it’s incredibly personal, but it shouldn’t NOT be discussed. Together, let’s level up and look at some key points of what you need to know about a girl starting her first period and because I’m an educator  and I know you’re a newbie at this, we are going to approach this sensitive topic with the good ol’ “5 W’s” approach. Who? (well this one is pretty easy) Anyone that has a period is going to experience a first one. Let’s make the first one non-traumatic and empowering. Why? Let’s just briefly discuss the “why” in this. A period (menstrual cycle) is when the lining of the uterus (some say the womb) is released. When a girl starts her first period sometimes, it could be very light pink – to very dark red, and this depends on the amount of uterine lining (i.e., flow) released from the uterus. The flow is what comes through the vagina. The amount of flow depends on one’s body (the release of the lining) and once the menstrual/period becomes regulated you will see a consistent pattern. It might seem like a simplistic way of explaining; however, I think we truly underestimate the number of adults that don’t know where the menstrual cycle originates and how “it” happens. What? The “What” portion of our first-period topic is multi-layered. What are the symptoms? What will it feel like? Usually, these questions, initiate other questions and that’s why we are here – a learning community for everyone to understand periods. For now, let’s talk about the symptoms of the first period. Signs that a first period is on the horizon are but are not limited to: growing of underarm hair and pubic hair, nausea, a lower backache, headaches, breast tenderness and cramping in the stomach area. You could also notice a discharge from the vagina. Next, what does it feel like? While it doesn’t have one unique feel, the symptoms above are the start. The stomach cramping, nausea, and breast tenderness seem to be consistent in how it feels as the first period approaches. I’ve had some girls say they had no real feeling, that it was completely a surprise and only felt the wetness in their panties that clued them to go to the restroom. While it might seem that this is the best scenario – no cramps, no nausea, etc. when we get to the point of noticing the symptoms of a first period (any of them) wearing a day time panty liner is a great way to empower a girl to feel prepared. WHAT we know is that a first period is coming and there are some signs to look for, our job in the “WHAT” is to recognize them and move forward with a plan of preparation. When? While we can’t pinpoint the exact day and time of a first period (life would be so much easier), we do have an age range and physical change cues that should encourage us to start preparation. In my personal experience, I’ve had girls start their first periods with me as early as 8 to 9 years old. Most research has a girl starting their periods around the ages of 11-13. There is no textbook answer on this, for instance – I know girls who didn’t start until after their 16th birthday. Our bodies are individual beings that operate on its own. Several factors influence the start of the menstrual cycle. Body weight, eating habits, genetics, family medical history, etc. all play a role in the first-period maturation. I’m comfortable with personal experience and research that we should be looking for symptoms starting around age 9-13. Where? Where is one of the very reasons why RedDrop exists. Throughout my many years in education I realized that the “where” in starting the first period could very well be with me, a teacher – at school, on the bus, on a field trip, during an athletic game or meet and many other endless possibilities – and that’s just in the school environment alone. That’s why it’s so important that when we see the signs – we initiate the conversation, be open and honest about it and finally move intentionally in our preparation. Together with preparation, the WHERE should not give us anxiety. How? (this is a big one) How we prepare for the first period can impact your daughter’s self-esteem, and how they see themselves, this is why the discussion and preparation aspects are so important. How can we ensure that girls have an empowering experience when they start their first period? Simply, preparation. I’ve seen it successfully happen. When girls know their bodies and have an idea of what to expect, they are first – informed. No need to learn misinformation from their friends they have clear and concise expectations of what is going to happen to their bodies, what to look for and what to use. Preparation for a girls first period looks like the Code Red Pack that provides all the essentials for what a girl needs to start her period. The expectation that mom, dad, or a caretaker then starts a conversation about HOW to use a pad (or whatever method you choose) should happen. How do you correctly put on a pad? How many times do I change a pad? Are the feminine wipes safe to use in my vaginal area? The list of questions is endless. The only effective way to combat a negative experience is to first start with a positive one, and that begins with you, with us and then it ends in girls having their first period prepared, confident and informed. There is so much more we can talk about as it relates to a girl starting her first period. What I do know as an educator who has ushered many girls into their first-period experience is that being emotionally and physically prepared makes a difference when their first period comes. I’ve had girls know absolutely nothing about their bodies and girls who needed no assistance from me start their first period with me, only you – the adult in their life will be able to enable that positive experience. Simply put, the most important thing you “need to know about a girls first period” is this, “Empowered women, empower women.” – Lindsey Leifken. I want to add that empowering dads, teachers, caretakers, and coaches. – EMPOWER! Why wouldn’t we want our girls to feel empowered during this journey? Is it because it’s uncomfortable to talk about? Our girls should matter more than our discomfort.  The shame and embarrassment about a little girl’s journey must stop with us today.

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10 Steps to A Better First Period for Your Daughter

Our Blog – by Monica Williams – February 08, 2019

10 Steps to A Better First Period for Your Daughter

My daughter just got her first period a little over a month ago, and it was a smooth process —and one of my proudest accomplishments. But it doesn’t always go that way. Here is how I approached her big moment, so you can stay cool, calm and collected when it’s your turn: 1.Get your mind right – This “thing” can happen WAY sooner than you might expect, so put your big girl/boy underwear on and get yourself ready. The average age for a girl to start her period is 12.5 years old (6th grade), but it is more and more commonly happening earlier. 3rd grade is not too soon to start! 2. Be on the lookout for signs of the first period – Moodiness, excessive sleepiness, and unexplained tummy aches without fever can be their first cramps, 3. Start having “The Talk” – I never would’ve thought that the first-period talk was just as hard if not harder than the sex talk. But it really was for me. Just keep it simple, it’s more about sharing the simple fact that blood will come out of her vagina and that it won’t hurt. Keep in mind that with children, when blood has showed up before this point, there has been some level of trauma. 4. Signs of her first period to talk to her about — Tell her to be on the look-out for discharge, a creamy whitish or light yellowish release in their panties. This will be the first indication that she needs to start wearing some form of protection every day to avoid a mess. 5. Tell her that she probably won’t feel anything – Tell her that cramps are painful but save the details for a separate conversation. Most girls incidentally find blood in their panties, on the tissue after they’ve wiped themselves, or in the toilet. 6. Talk about cramps – Prepare them with methods that can ease the pain: heating pads, Motrin, etc. Be sure to tell them that if they choose to use ibuprofen for pain control, to make sure they drink plenty of water so that it doesn’t metabolize in their kidneys. 7. Show them how pads work — Make sure you have a few on hand along with some clean panties and show them exactly how to do it, then help them practice. If their first period comes away from home, they’ll be more confident in how to take care of themselves. 8. Make sure they have a “first-period kit” —It can be as simple as a Ziploc bag with some pads in it that they have unwrapped/practiced with before. Put one in their bookbag, leave one in their locker and if dad lives separately, make sure he has one too.  For the school version – use a pencil case or something else that’s a little more discreet. 9. Share a personal story — Talk to them about your first time or of one of your friends, especially if it was embarrassing. It’s important to know that even with the best preparation, sometimes things don’t go smoothly, but it shouldn’t impact their self-worth or esteem. 10. Relax – Sooner or later it’s going to happen. You can feel confident that she’s both prepared and open to talking to you, and honestly, that’s the most critical part. Feel good that you’ve done a great job!

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Dads! Are you ready for your daughter's first period?

Our Blog – by Mike Davis – February 08, 2019

Dads! Are you ready for your daughter's first period?

Are you ready for your daughter’s first period? Yeah, me neither. You would think I’d be comfortable with periods by now. I grew up in a house with a mother and two sisters that had periods. I’ve had girlfriends with periods, and my wife goes through it each month. Yes, I’ve made and continue to make visits to the store to buy maxi pads and liners. I’ve been doing this for at least the last 13 years and yet, there’s still a tinge of awkwardness everytime I go thru the checkout line. Not to mention, the occasional lame joke from a bystander or the cashier: “are these for you (raised eyebrow and smirk)?” or “that time of the month, huh (raised eyebrow and smirk)?” Mentally, I’m an eighth grader when it comes to periods. But now I have a daughter and, well, it’s time for me to grow up. To be fair, my daughter is six years old, so I have some time. However, a number of my close friends have daughters who have experienced their first period in the last year. Time flies! It feels like I just held those babies in my arms yesterday! So, I started to think about it: am I ready for my daughter’s first period? What type of experience will she have? What can I do to make sure she is prepared for her first period? What can I do to make sure I AM ready for her first period? As I think about it, there are probably three main things I should focus on: Understanding the physiology of the menstrual cycle. Understanding how I can help her with her first period. Understanding the various product options. The Physiology I don’t know about you, but I immediately did a Google search, because if it’s on the internet, it must be true, right? Of course, you can read articles from a medical journal, but I prefer trusted websites like WebMD and womenshealth.gov to make sure I understand the underlying science. Tips for Helping I scrubbed the internet and talked to my friends looking for tips on how I might help my daughter when she has her first period. The truth is, like everything else in life, everyone has an opinion or advice (and often they’re contradictory). Do you remember when you became a parent for the first time? If you are anything like me (really my wife), you read lots of books, asked lots of questions of other people and sometimes (a lot of the time) received unsolicited advice about everything: feeding, sleep training, potty training, discipline, etc. Nine out of ten times, the information was well-intentioned, but didn’t work. Why? Because context matters…each child is different, each situation is different. I’ve learned to trust my instincts, and I’ll probably do the same when my daughter has her first period. I’ve been building social capital with my daughter, and I’ll continue to do so. Life is a relationship business, and good, healthy relationships make 90% of life bearable. That being said, the following tips (courtesy of Christina Boyes at The Good Men Project) did resonate with me: Do Nothing. A period is a big change in a girl’s life, and it’s awkward enough without any extra emphasis. Don’t plan a period party, give a special piece of jewelry, or take her out on a date night to celebrate menstruation. Don’t freak out. You’re probably not ready for this (most parents are not). Make sure you’ve had “the talk” by the time she’s nine, and keep a basket on hand with a few samples of different brands of pads and tampons, a bottle of water to help her rehydrate, and a 2-pack of Advil in case her cramps are unbearable. Make it clear she can talk to you about it. Remember tip #2. Lean in…learn about periods. Sit down with a female friend or two well before the day arrives, and ask them what it’s like. A refresher course can fill you in on changes from the days your mom or sister went through it. Get help. If you have a female friend who is like an aunt to your daughter, ask her if she’d be willing to help her through the first cycle or two with shopping trips and tips — trust me, shopping for pads with your Dad is embarrassing, no matter how great your relationship. Schedule an appointment with the gynecologist. Periods come with baggage, and you need to know that your daughter is 100% healthy. Take her to the gynecologist, but don’t make a big deal of it. She’ll have an exam, and she’ll find out more about how to take care of herself. Product Options I found this very useful site, Sex Ed Rescue (don’t let the name ruin you). They have a pretty comprehensive breakdown of the various product types and tips for using each product. I hope this is helpful…a little science, a couple of tips and some product suggestions. I’ll leave you with this parting note. On the eve of the birth of my first child, I had an exchange with someone that went something like this: Bob: “are you ready?” Me: “as ready as I’m going to be…” Bob: “ready or not, here it comes!” “It” turned out to be a girl and six years later here I am…still parenting, learning every day. I think the first-period experience will be similar to the parenthood journey. It won’t be perfect, but your daughter doesn’t want or need you to be perfect. Just be what she wants…be what she needs.

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